Why do narcissists start to hate you for no reason?
It’s because you have feelings and emotions they don’t, but it’s more than that.
Recent studies show that narcissists actually do think they are better than everyone else, so they take this out on you.
You probably infuriate them when they see you’re more talented, and also have affective empathy.
But in truth, I believe it’s a combination of envy/jealousy, egotism, and they think it’s their right to abuse others. They also think it’s their right because they never got what they wanted, so they take this out on others.
They basically just step on people and don’t care. They think the world owes them everything, and that you do too.
Now you know why so many of them dominate our businesses and governments. They get their way ruthlessly, and don’t care how many people they destroy.
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They have a reason. They have many. They hate you because …
They hate themselves.
You have a genuine happiness about you and they don’t.
They are jealous of you- your life, how you were raised, your success, your decisions, your friends, your family- everything about you.
They have weird voices in their heads telling them negative things about themselves and they project that hate onto you.
NPD makes them hateful people. So, they have no other choice but to hate you.
If you get to know a narcissist for any length of time, you will learn they are angry, unhappy and hateful people. This is simply who they are.
And we all know the phrase, “Haters gonna hate.”
A narc is a hater…all day long.
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The narcissist will hate you for one of two reasons:
You are doing great, feeling inspired, feeling connected to the world and those around you, generally in a good feeling place. And the narcissist is unable to take you down from this high-flying place.
You are feeling down, have no good humour, low energy, unable to provide validation,… and also are lacking in the tangible, like money, quality sex, etc. No good supply on offer.
Ok, maybe if you really screwed with them, like exposed them or otherwise caused a narcissistic injury, they might hate you too.
Narcissists only really “like" people who they can use. And for them the best people to use are those who currently have something good going on, something good on offer, which the narcissist wants to take.
And the narcissist not so much enjoys taking from you, as they do watching you fall, or mourn in the loss of something which was precious to you.
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