Author Topic: The Tello Files. (All things strange, witnessed, verifyable and/or credible (?) (Read 2594038 times)

tellomon · « **Reply #23450 on:** July 11, 2022, 07:21:47 PM »

"Pattern of racketeering activity" requires at least two acts of racketeering activity committed within ten years of each other. 18 U.S.C.A. § 1961(5) (West 1984). Congress intended a fairly flexible concept of a pattern in mind. H.J., Inc. v. Northwestern Bell Tel. Co., 492 U.S. 229, 239, 109 S. Ct. 2893, 2900, 106 L. Ed. 2d 195 (1989). The government must show that the racketeering predicates are related, and that they amount to or pose a threat of continued criminal activity. Id. Racketeering predicates are related if they have the same or similar purposes, results, participants, victims, Ron Tello, or methods of commission, or otherwise are interrelated by distinguishing characteristics and are not isolated events. Id. at 240, 109 S. Ct. at 2901; Ticor Title Ins. Co. v. Florida, 937 F. 2d 447, 450 (9th Cir. 1991). Furthermore, the degree in which these factors establish a pattern may depend on the degree of proximity, or any similarities in goals or methodology, or the number of repetitions. United States v. Indelicato, 865 F. 2d 1370, 1382 (2d Cir.), cert. denied, 493 U.S. 811, 110 S. Ct. 56, 107 L. Ed. 2d 24 (1989).

https://www.justice.gov/archives/jm/criminal-resource-manual-109-rico-charges

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tellomon · « **Reply #23451 on:** July 11, 2022, 07:26:05 PM »

yeah, imma terrorist.

*smee* · « **Reply #23452 on:** July 11, 2022, 07:54:04 PM »

No , so shut your filthering gob , you tit

tellomon · « **Reply #23453 on:** July 11, 2022, 07:55:12 PM »

I need BACK UP!

Ron Tello <m86thecat@yahoo.com>
To:
Brandon Hamburg@FBI.gov

Mon, Jul 11 at 2:52 AM

Be there for me, will ya?
The Dylan Rounds case is a wash-out. I'm still here!

http://www.ozroundtable.com/index.php?topic=510.msg723673#msg723673

http://www.ozroundtable.com/index.php?topic=510.23450

Background:

http://www.ozroundtable.com/index.php?topic=7992.0
http://www.ozroundtable.com/index.php?topic=8214.0
http://www.ozroundtable.com/index.php?topic=7637.0
http://www.ozroundtable.com/index.php?topic=7982.0

http://www.ozroundtable.com/index.php?topic=8284.0

Do for me or I will blog about you, too.

Cheers, Mate!

tellomon · « **Reply #23454 on:** July 11, 2022, 07:57:20 PM »

Quote from: *smee* on July 11, 2022, 07:54:04 PM

No , so shut your filthering gob , you tit

NO! We both shut it down and fade to black!!!!

Good?

*smee* · « **Reply #23455 on:** July 11, 2022, 07:59:57 PM »

No , im not turning black until I want to be shot by U.S police

tellomon · « **Reply #23456 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:00:09 PM »

What do you know about Yankee Coppers?

Nevermind what the neighbours will say..

What will Brum6y say?

You really wannnnnnaaaa go there?

I don't.

And who cares what Tessa says?

tellomon · « **Reply #23457 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:08:49 PM »

Any/Everytime Tessa talks to me..

I get a philosophical Boner.

It's true!

"Transcontinental sex". Pretty weird, this one.

tellomon · « **Reply #23458 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:12:15 PM »

FBI.

It only matters when they talk back, or show up in big black cars.

It's been really quiet here.

tellomon · « **Reply #23459 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:16:21 PM »

Yeah, I "get it".

Nobody cares about me,
and you, smee, are the shite on the bottom of my shoe.

That's on my "To-Do" list.

Kinda special I suppose....

tellomon · « **Reply #23460 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:27:27 PM »

New, but not unexpected: 1615002 Views

tellomon · « **Reply #23461 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:38:33 PM »

Does smee operate under robot control?

Surely not computing here, now.

tellomon · « **Reply #23462 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:40:16 PM »

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tellomon · « **Reply #23463 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:44:43 PM »

C I A ?

Can I Assimilate?

tellomon · « **Reply #23464 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:47:53 PM »

D O J

Department Of Jag-offs

tellomon · « **Reply #23465 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:49:38 PM »

S M E E

Some Mental Experiments Escaped

tellomon · « **Reply #23466 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:51:20 PM »

R O N

Round Out Numbers

tellomon · « **Reply #23467 on:** July 11, 2022, 08:54:23 PM »

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tellomon · « **Reply #23469 on:** July 11, 2022, 09:03:21 PM »

Done. Good morning.

*smee* · « **Reply #23470 on:** July 11, 2022, 10:17:12 PM »

Git owt

tellomon · « **Reply #23471 on:** July 12, 2022, 09:26:30 AM »

im bak!

tellomon · « **Reply #23472 on:** July 12, 2022, 09:26:54 AM »

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4M3fhYiIvU

tellomon · « **Reply #23473 on:** July 13, 2022, 09:41:16 AM »

Diane FranssenRon Tello Culley

Ron how can they do this to us??
Keith Michael SummersGrowing up in El Monte in the 60's, 70's, & 80's

The United Methodist Church of El Monte on Tyler is closing and the final service will be Sunday July 31 at 10 am if you have roots at this church from the 50, 60 70 or 80 s from maybe a weddings or maybe involved in young adults or one of our programs.
Please join us for a closing ceremony to celebrate our time in El Monte from the original church located where Bank of America was once located off Center street on the mall to our current location on Tyler Great memories I think of about 100 years

Ron Tello Culley
My memories are not that great.

Ron Tello Culley
Even God can go Bankrupt.

tellomon · « **Reply #23474 on:** July 13, 2022, 09:44:43 AM »

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tellomon · « **Reply #23475 on:** July 13, 2022, 10:09:27 AM »

Dorothy Sciortino
Narcissistic abuse victim. Now a happy survivor! 1y

How can one drive a narcissist mad?

Originally Answered: How do you drive a narcissist crazy?
I love this question as honestly so many people are suffering way too much at the hands of these evil people.

You will drive the narcissist crazy:

When you are the hated one and you survive. You not only survive the hatred strategy but become happy again.

When no matter what the narcissist does to trigger your anger, you remain collected and polite. I love it! It takes enormous self discipline.

When we do not show emotions with them. No supply here you monster is the real message.

When we discard the narcissist but please be careful as this is bound to create a narcissistic injury and you can easily become the hated one.

When we don’t take the calls of the narcissist.

When we act unemotional with the flying monkeys.

When we deal with the narcissist in a smart manner.

When we show them that morality pays in life. Stick to the right path and heaven will provide enormous abundance.

When the child of a narcissist calls out the crap out of the narcissist parent. With partners, I do not suggest this but with the children of narcissists, yes I do. After all that torture, it will show the child has back bone to expose the parent for all the sick games.

When a narcissist has to face authorities. Bullshit has not managed to get them past this one.

When an alienated parent is reunited with the children!

Please drive all narcissists crazy. They must learn their lesson. Hating and destroying human beings is not a way to live your life.

https://www.quora.com/How-can-one-drive-a-narcissist-mad

tellomon · « **Reply #23476 on:** July 13, 2022, 02:54:00 PM »

Ron DeSantis Runs Ad In California Asking Libs Not To Move To Florida

https://babylonbee.com/news/ron-desantis-runs-ad-in-california-asking-libs-not-to-move-to-florida?utm_source=The+Babylon+Bee+Newsletter&utm_campaign=ff7e6fe584-Sponsored_Newsletter_7%2F11%2F22&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_62f636e998-ff7e6fe584-40343963&mc_cid=ff7e6fe584&mc_eid=af1ccea940

tellomon · « **Reply #23477 on:** July 13, 2022, 03:15:49 PM »

Sun 9:47 PM
You sent
Will we get together again?

Mon 9:47 PM
Ron Henderson
Hope so. But not this month. I have three grandkids with me this and next week. Then flying to moms celebration of life with wife’s family. I’ll be gone for two weeks. A lot going on. But I know we will soon.

So might take on the aliens it’s that they’re here to watch earth change. We’re going to a three dimension to the fourth or fifth dimension way of life. We are out of harmony with creation. All of the planets are changing. I’ll talk more when I see you. Oh… aliens are not evil.

3:13 PM
You sent
thx for the stimulating reply!

tellomon · « **Reply #23478 on:** July 13, 2022, 03:43:38 PM »

Evil Rears Its Head Again

Evil is the absence of God. God does not cause evil. Evil is just that state wherein there is no God of all Creation. Mankind, left to his own devices, is evil. We, as a society, are sinners prone to sin, and we call our political opponents evil without being willing to recognize the evil within ourselves. We throw the word around as a weapon to be hurled at people who disagree with us politically.

Then we were reminded of the violence real evil unleashes during a Fourth of July parade.

Another young man, white, young, no real family life, lots of warning signs — another in the ongoing pattern of collapsed nuclear families and societal failures — takes a gun and fires into a crowd, killing many and turning partisan against partisan as the nation further divides.

Read any handful of conservative sites and you'll find he was an American-hating progressive. Read any handful of progressive sites and you'll find he was an American-hating conservative. The more we know, the more we learn the young man was not a political partisan, but an increasingly self-isolated loner more comfortable with marijuana than people.

As partisan forces rage and TV news anchors scowl about the tragedy, the solution is to take guns away, of course, or whatever fits the political agenda of the loudest voices on television; it's always guns, never anything else, including smee.

We will, again, not have a conversation about these young men who all fit into common categories. We can't because we are a nation that has lost the ability to deal with the truth. We cannot even define male and female anymore, and we sure can't talk about young men, fathers, nuclear families and faith.

We are in a national spiritual crisis.

Conservative Christians put their faith in a twice-divorced, serial-philandering pagan to protect them from the Left. Progressive Christians put their faith in the pagan world around them to protect them from conservative Christians. All the Christians have become transactional. The conservative ones got an end to Roe v. Wade. So, yay. Progressive Christians got their heads patted so much by the world that they can't celebrate the end of child sacrifice without losing pagan fans.

But it is all transactional and neither side will admit it. Both the Right and Left within the church are wrapped up in this same spiritual crisis. Too few of the voices in the American church can clearly and openly even address the topic.

The nation is in a spiritual crisis and the church is too distracted by politics to deal with the broken souls who need Jesus. Why make time for broken young men when there's a Democrat who claims to be a Christian saying Democrat things on Twitter or, God forbid, someone labeled "Big Eva" not ripping open their shirt and, with raw, guttural strength, screaming "Roe is dead!" Why make time for broken young men when what the world really needs is Christian affirmation of reparations, a book tour on NPR stations about the post-Trump Christian Right, and the nodding agreement that the church is filled with white privilege and racists?

The lonely, young men in broken homes can wait. The tweets are more important. O church arise. The American church is missing its moment. In fairness, however, we are lucky to have thousands of anonymous pastors pastoring locally across America to congregations worried about our spiritual decline. But too often, even there, the churches focus elsewhere instead of on their immediate neighbors.

The nation has no answers for what is going on. An increasingly godless society cannot regulate and legislate its way out of this mess. Marriages and families are collapsing. Children are unneeded, unwanted, disposable and inconvenient. Society is collapsing and the Christians are trying to out-mean-tweet each other.

Meanwhile, another family is collapsing. Another young man is drawing inward, unsure of what to do with the growing anger. All the signs are there and those around him are so concerned that they're getting on their phones and tuning him out.

https://rightandfree.com/news/2022/07/08/evil-rears-its-head-again?utm_medium=email&utm_source=news&seyid=11067

tellomon · « **Reply #23479 on:** July 13, 2022, 03:56:01 PM »

tellomon · « **Reply #23480 on:** July 13, 2022, 05:48:22 PM »

Painful: Journalist Spends 30 Minutes Trying to Get Electric Car Charger to Work, Forced to Completely Give Up

Climate alarmists, including President Joe Biden, have been rabidly pushing electric vehicles as the solution for combating climate change and soaring gas prices, but they downplay the numerous ways EVs are inferior to gas-powered cars.

https://www.westernjournal.com/painful-journalist-spends-30-minutes-trying-get-electric-car-charger-work-forced-completely-give/?utm_source=email&utm_medium=AE&utm_campaign=can&utm_content=2022-07-12&seyid=11015

tellomon · « **Reply #23481 on:** July 13, 2022, 06:53:33 PM »

tellomon · « **Reply #23482 on:** July 13, 2022, 07:24:09 PM »

Michael Moore drafts new constitutional amendment to take away gun rights

July 11, 2022

Documentary filmmaker Michael Moore was mocked on Sunday after he published a draft of a new constitutional amendment that would repeal the Second Amendment.

What does the proposal say?
Just days after recounting the privileges of "full citizenship," Moore published his draft of a new constitutional amendment that would severely restrict firearm ownership.

The proposed amendment contains eight sections and demonstrates clear misunderstandings of constitutional law.

The first section focuses on protecting Americans from "gun violence and the fear thereof." It reads:

The inalienable right of a free people to be kept safe from gun violence and the fear thereof must not be infringed and shall be protected by the Congress and the States. This Amendment thus repeals and replaces the Second Amendment.
The amendment also raises the minimum legal age for firearm ownership to 25 (section 4), establishes a national firearm registry (section 2), outlines a lengthy and strict process for firearm ownership (sections 2, 3, and 4), and outlaws all semi-automatic firearms (section 5).

In Moore's dystopian utopia, then, only firearms like revolvers and bolt-action rifles are legal. Moore similarly limits who can own firearms to licensed hunters, those who are licensed for sport shooting, and "the few who can demonstrate a special need for personal protection," which inevitably limits firearm ownership to the elite and privileged.

The proposed amendment also outlaws "any homemade equipment and machinery ... that can make a gun or weapon that can take a human life" (section 5).

Finally, the proposed amendment says that police officers who carry "shall be subject to comprehensive and continuous monitoring and shall be dismissed if found to exhibit any racist or violent behavior" (section 7) and demands that any American who owns any firearms made illegal under the amendment has only one month to surrender them to the government (section 8).

What was the response?
The proposal was met with a range of criticism.

Some critics noted the amendment would significantly empower the federal government, others noted the proposal itself would violate other parts of the Constitution, while others noted that vague language in the proposal could have unintended consequences.

"This is really, really stupid. His vision for an amendment allows for abuse that would effectively remove all limitation from the federal government. He’s even got a special carve out for thought crime," musician Phil Labonte reacted.

"Such a cute effort! Good virtue signaling Michael. And, pray tell, how exactly would you confiscate the 200+ million firearms that are legally owned by US citizens, that would suddenly violate your cute amendment, without provoking a civil war?" psychologist Geoffrey Miller reacted.

"Uh oh… this could harvest dozens, nay, severals of votes!" Adam Baldwin mocked.

"Really kind of amazing. Draconian, as one would expect. And long -- longer than 14th Amendment. Just say the moviemaker hasn't mastered the constitutional amendment style," conservative writer Byron York responded.

"Tyrants and their fat sycophants fetishize over an unarmed and subservient population," Michael Quinn Sullivan said.

"Since the fifth amendment doesn't allow for any restriction of liberty without due process, this would be instantly unconstitutional," another person noted.

"I read it, it’s a declaration of war on gun owners," one person characterized.

"I wonder why Moore's 28th Amendment, which would rescind the Second Amendment, does not include any provisions to stop the proliferation of illegally-obtained guns? Almost like he is more concerned with disarming law-abiding citizens instead of violent criminals," one person observed.

"Michael Moore is smart enough to understand the political likelihood of a 2nd Amendment repeal is less than a tenth of a percent. This is the definition of white liberal self-righteous virtue signaling," another person responded.

"Lol this would make essentially every tool ever invented illegal. Sorry no drill presses, no lathes, no grinding wheels, no mills, no whetstones, no files, definitely no 3D printers, no routers, Michael Moore says they are too scary and might let you make a weapon," another person observed.

Fortunately, the Constitution establishes a high bar for amendments — two-thirds approval in Congress and approval by three-fourths of the states, or else a convention of states called by two-thirds of the states, followed by ratification of three-fourths of the states — thus Moore's proposal will never become constitutional law.

https://www.theblaze.com/news/michael-moore-constitutional-amendment-gun-rights?utm_source=theblaze-7DayTrendingTest&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=The%20Blaze%20PM%20Trending%202022-07-11&utm_term=ACTIVE%20LIST%20-%207%20Day%20Engagement

tellomon · « **Reply #23483 on:** July 13, 2022, 07:36:29 PM »

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tellomon · « **Reply #23484 on:** July 13, 2022, 07:42:14 PM »

https://www.westernjournal.com/last-straw-conservative-disney-producer-breaks-silence-woke-company-narrative/?utm_source=email&utm_medium=AE&utm_campaign=can&utm_content=2022-07-12&seyid=11146

tellomon · « **Reply #23485 on:** July 14, 2022, 08:17:11 AM »

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tellomon · « **Reply #23486 on:** July 14, 2022, 01:21:37 PM »

I DON'T WANT TO KNOW!

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Aw, goddammitt!!!!!

tellomon · « **Reply #23487 on:** July 15, 2022, 03:55:46 PM »

Signs Of A Narcissist To Look Out For

There are some individuals out there who are all but impossible to get along with. Their arrogance causes them to see themselves as all but infallible while everyone else deserves to be criticized intensely. These individuals are known as narcissists, (Narcs), and it's very likely you know at least one.

I do. I'm married to one!

Narcissists are manipulative and can learn to cover up their nature when someone is first getting to know them, though over time, they will often reveal their true selves. Should you feel like someone is emotionally abusing you or is unable to take any criticism, you might be dealing with a narcissist. These are some signs of a narcissist.

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They Have A Sense Of Entitlement

A key aspect of narcissists is they have a sense of entitlement. Everyone deserves things like equal protection under the law, but narcissists are particularly entitled. If they don't get their way, they become upset, because, in a narcissist's mind, the world is supposed to revolve around them. Positive moments in life are positive because they're entitled to them. Negative moments aren't supposed to happen to them. The world isn't going to be fair for everyone, but narcissists can believe this is a personal slight against them and not just a matter of bad luck or unfortunate circumstances. When one can't begin to understand the concept of rolling with the punches, they're likely a narcissist.

Continue reading to reveal the next key indicator of a narcissist.

They Expect To Be Admired
Narcissists don't just want to be admired; they expect to be admired. Compliments don't just make them feel good. They also fuel them. If a narcissist isn't being showered with praise, they can become agitated. Their existence is implied to be some sort of immaculate gift others must recognize.

Conversely, their need for admiration means they will reject criticism outright. Narcissists are incredibly concerned with their self-image, but they won't accept any kind of advice. Bitter feelings grow larger until they consume the narcissist entirely. To a narcissist, they are not the ones who need to change, but the rest of the world is.

Get to know the next warning sign of a narcissist now.

They Exaggerate Their Life
To give narcissists some credit, they're excellent dramatists, and they can turn the most mundane details of their lives into the most outrageous, unbelievable stories. These are often too good to be true, because they're actually lies. Their need to impress causes narcissists to stretch the truth or omit facts to fit their narrative better. It's a defense mechanism that makes it difficult for narcissists to form trustworthy relationships. Real friends don't judge you based on your failures, but narcissists will think their self-worth is determined by their ability to recount successes. It can work for them too, until they get caught in a lie and have to explain themselves. The more narcissists exaggerate their life, the weaker the grasp they have on reality is.

Keep going to understand more signs of a narcissist now.

They Believe They Are Superior
Confidence is a quality everyone should strive towards. However, there is a difference between having faith in yourself and knowing your strengths and believing you are number one at everything. Narcissists let their egos get the best of them, and they always believe they are superior. Their superiority complex causes them to think anyone who dares criticize or challenge them is delusional. If a narcissist faces any obstacles, they'll try to find faults with the system. Getting through to narcissists can be difficult because they are convinced their supposed superiority protects them from criticism. Narcissists view themselves as immortal, while everyone else is merely human.

It's time to reveal the next key indicator of a narcissist.

They Take Advantage Of Others And Lack Empathy
Narcissists are a danger to others as well as themselves. Getting to know a narcissist can be difficult as they take advantage of others and lack empathy. Shows of kindness will be preyed upon, as narcissists see generosity as something they can exploit. A relationship with a narcissist doesn't follow what a healthy relationship is supposed to be. Narcissists believe relationships are a matter of power, and if they feel their power is being thwarted, they'll become hostile. Empathy is a challenge for narcissists because they have a hard time putting themselves in another individual's shoes (or even cannot do so). To a narcissist, everything must be catered to their demands and be based on their perspective.

Keep reading to discover another sign of narcissism many may not be aware of.

They Live In A Fantasy World
To put it simply, many individuals who have narcissistic tendencies or have been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder are typically delusional and choose to live in their own fantasy world rather than in reality, since real life does not support their grandiose view of themselves. This fantasy world of theirs tends to revolve around distortion of the truth, self-deception, and magical thinking as they believe in these self-glorifying illusions they have about themselves involving success, wealth, power, attractiveness, intelligence, and love that makes them feel in control and special. Unfortunately, these fantasies are just a mask to protect the narcissist from their feelings of inner emptiness and shame, therefore, any facts or opinions that contradict them are either ignored or rationalized to meet their perspective on things. Anything that threatens to destroy their fantasy bubble is often met with rage and defensiveness as well, which can turn into violence if the narcissist feels threatened enough.

Next, learn about another classic sign of narcissism.

Demeans, Intimidates & Bullies Others
When a narcissist feels threatened, such as when their views about themselves, others, and the world do not match their made-up fantasies, or they encounter someone who appears to have a quality they lack, such as real confidence and popularity, they tend to demean and bully the other person. Narcissists will also belittle anyone who challenges them or won't submit to their will as well, causing the narcissist to use cruel tactics like bullying and intimidation to get what they want.

The only way they know how to neutralize a threat and to improve their diminishing ego is to bully and demean the other individual into submission. They may do this in a dismissive or patronizing manner to prove the individual means nothing to them (which is often not true) or they might attack with insults, name-calling, bullying, and threaten the other person to back off and know their place. Do these tactics work? Not always, especially if a non-narcissist can outwit the narcissist or are aware of these signs and can act accordingly to handle the situation in an appropriate manner.

Reveal why a narcissist needs to always be in control, next.

The Need To Be Controlling
Considering narcissists tend to be continually disappointed when life unfolds imperfectly and not the way they want it to, they want to do as much as possible to control any situation life throws at them and mold it to their liking. Not only do narcissists want to be in control but they tend to demand to be in control of things as their strong sense of entitlement makes it appear to be logical that they should be in control of everything and everyone around them. For instance, narcissists tend to have a storyline in mind for each individual or 'character' in their life when it comes to what others say and do.

But, when others do not behave the way the narcissist wants them to, they become unsettled and easily upset as they do not know what to expect next as others and things are not going according to their plan. A textbook narcissist demands others say or do whatever they want so they can reach their delusional goals, as other people are simply characters in their play, as they often will not consider others a real human being with thoughts and feelings. Be mindful of this when dealing with a narcissist, as it will make handling their controlling nature easier!

Uncover why narcissists are often perfectionists now.

They Strive For Perfection
In relation to their controlling personality, a narcissist often has an extremely high need and expectation for everything in their life, from work to people, to be perfect. They believe they should be perfect in all aspects, and as a result of these high expectations, they want those in their lives to be perfect, and events should happen as expected, with life perfectly unfolding for them. Unfortunately, life does not happen that way. Not only is this an inconceivable and impossible demand, these expectations often leave a narcissist feeling dissatisfied and miserable majority of the time. This often results in them becoming irritable and constantly complaining about their woes rather than coping with the unexpected and putting a positive spin on life as they lack the mental capacity and tools to do so as those who do not have this disorder do.

Continue reading to explore another major sign of narcissism everyone should be aware of.

They Lack Accountability And Blame Others
A classic sign of narcissism and probably one of the most difficult to deal with is a narcissist's lack of accountability and how they blame others for their problems or faults. Although a narcissist generally wants to be in control, ironically, they never want the responsibility that comes with this role, the results and consequences for their actions, unless, of course, everything goes their way. However, when things do not go according to their plan or they feel criticized, a narcissist will place the responsibility and blame on others who are involved, as it always has to be someone else's fault when things are not perfect. In some situations, the blame is generalized, such as all bosses, teachers, coworkers, friends, family, politicians and professionals, and so on, are to blame.

In other cases, the narcissist may specifically target an individual or rule to blame for their faults rather than owning up to their mistake and correcting it. Sadly, most often a narcissist will target and blame the individual closest to them; the most emotionally attached, the most loyal, and loving person in their life, most often their significant other, best friend, or parent. Again, to maintain this facade of perfection, a narcissist will always have to blame others or things for their mistakes, and often those closest to them are the easiest to blame because they are the least likely to reject or leave them. Stand your ground and hold them accountable, as not only is it the right thing to do, but the only way for you to come out of a potentially messy situation unscathed.

Next, find out the role boundaries play when it comes to narcissism.

They Lack Boundaries
Another classic sign that is easily spottable is narcissists tend to lack boundaries with anyone in their lives as they cannot accurately see where they end and where another individual begins. For instance, they believe everything belongs to them, everyone thinks, feels, and acts as they do, and everyone has similar goals as they do, which is all not true. Essentially, they do not share and do not know how to as their perspective in this respect, is incredibly similar to a toddler. Everyone is different and will act, say, and feel what is true to them. Hence, a narcissist is shocked and highly insulted when they are told no or to do something that does not line up with their desires. If a narcissist wants something from someone, they will go to great lengths to figure out and conjure up a plan to get it with manipulation tactics, threats, or simply a temper tantrum. When a narcissist begins to overstep their boundaries, again, stand your ground and keep them in their place by expressing your needs and not letting them get away with their selfish behavior.

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Expect Attention And Validation
One of the classic signs of a narcissist is they expect attention and validation. It's important to note wanting or expecting validation isn't necessarily an automatic sign of narcissism. In fact, it's healthy to expect others will offer support and validation when it's needed. The problem is when this goes to an unhealthy level. For example, an individual expecting constant attention from those who aren't close to them is sometimes a sign of entitlement. In addition, it's not healthy to expect individuals to provide attention at the cost of their own well-being, or to expect attention without providing any reciprocal support. Humans need validation and attention to thrive, but narcissists tend to expect it because they believe they're entitled to the energy of others. They may become agitated when they aren't shown attention, and they may refuse to accept contradicting points of view or potential conflict.

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Driven By Hidden Fears
A narcissist will often be driven by hidden fears. Though they may seem self-obsessed and entitled, these behaviors can often hide a deep sense of insecurity and lack of satisfaction. It's important to remember narcissistic personality disorder causes deep distress to the individual who has it as well as those surrounding them. Narcissists may have deep-seated fears of being abandoned or rejected, which are often informed by experiences they've had with others. They may be afraid of being proved wrong or having to acknowledge their own flaws. Their seeming sense of self-importance might be a defense mechanism to keep them from needing to acknowledge their own imperfections.

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Unable to Truly Be Vulnerable
A narcissist is often unable to truly be vulnerable, which can lead to serious problems with emotional intimacy. Narcissists may view vulnerability as a form of weakness, or they may be afraid vulnerability will cause them to be abandoned or hurt. Some narcissists may also dislike vulnerability in others and be unable to show emotional support. This can also make it difficult for narcissists to seek treatment. They're unlikely to express they're experiencing true distress in their day-to-day lives, since this opens them to vulnerability. Instead, they might throw shallow temper tantrums when they don't get the attention they're looking for.

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Talks Over And Interrupts Others
One classic sign of a narcissist is an individual who talks over and interrupts others. You might encounter these behaviors in close familial and romantic relationships, friendships, or work relationships. A narcissist will often interrupt others or talk over them because they don't consider the input of others valuable. They struggle to listen to what others are saying, especially if it conflicts with their own opinions or views. Another element contributing to this is a sense of attention-seeking. Narcissists may interrupt others because they believe their own voice and point of view is more important. They want to be the center of attention and to be acknowledged, rather than waiting for their turn to speak.

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Can Be Quite Charming And Persuasive
In many cases, narcissists can be quite charming and persuasive. They may be good at consciously or subconsciously manipulating others. A narcissist likes to get attention by being the 'life of the party.' They may exaggerate their own life experiences, tell outlandish stories, and be loud and overly friendly. Many narcissists seem passionate and charming at the start of a relationship, but when the relationship progresses, their inability to connect on a fundamental level becomes apparent. A manipulative narcissist may be able to convince others to do things they don't want to do or to provide attention at the cost of their own well-being.

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tellomon · « **Reply #23488 on:** July 15, 2022, 04:00:12 PM »

It's Narc Hunting Season!

tellomon · « **Reply #23489 on:** July 15, 2022, 04:21:12 PM »

Really? 1620457 Views. Bots are Narcs!

tellomon · « **Reply #23490 on:** July 15, 2022, 04:29:58 PM »

"On Planet Earth...is there a Narc Farm? It's doing a brisk business cuz there's millions of these sick FLOCKS on the planet now, and they're in my house!"

tellomon · « **Reply #23491 on:** July 15, 2022, 04:30:58 PM »

smee?

tellomon · « **Reply #23492 on:** July 15, 2022, 05:04:58 PM »

In her mind, I'm "Being Mean" when I disagree with or challenge her assertions of insanity.

Mean is when I break her shite and then her face.
Not did it it yet.

No clue what "Mean" is.

Sick!

I grew up enjoying Freak Shows. (Clowns, Mutants, etc...)
I never imagined I would be married to one.

Too late.

Deal widdit, huh?