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« Reply #1750 on: October 21, 2024, 10:19:17 AM »
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3 Uncomfortable Signs You’re Headed in the Right Direction (Even If You Feel Abandoned and Alone)


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« Reply #1751 on: October 21, 2024, 01:47:45 PM »
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« Reply #1752 on: October 21, 2024, 02:12:16 PM »
This one is especially good


When A Narcissist Dies: The Disturbing Reality of Dying Narcissists

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FavgHrxc6oY
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« Reply #1753 on: October 21, 2024, 02:49:50 PM »

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« Reply #1754 on: October 21, 2024, 03:03:02 PM »
Chosen One you decided that Churches are
not for you.

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« Reply #1755 on: October 22, 2024, 02:28:22 AM »
What to Say When Someone Belittles You


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« Reply #1756 on: October 22, 2024, 02:49:22 AM »
Jesus Warned US! The Hidden Danger of Narcissists Among Us
| C.S. Lewis


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« Reply #1757 on: October 22, 2024, 03:22:40 AM »
Untold Childhood Struggles of Every Sigma Male

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXgv7x53wCw


Why Sigma Males Can't Be Brainwashed

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbA3sPTtvZc


Why You Should NEVER Cross a Sigma Male

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAYJVRxkGEE
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« Reply #1758 on: October 22, 2024, 03:55:46 AM »
6 Terrifying Things That Happen When a Sigma Male Gets MAD

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmjdZxzyOJY


10 Hidden Gifts Every Sigma Male Has (But Hides)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DTNtHBAIoM


10 Ways Sigma Males “ Clock” sh!tty People

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3T0sahsAZc4
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« Reply #1759 on: October 22, 2024, 04:38:03 AM »
Why Sigma Males Are the MOST Intimidating Men

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3nToruQWJg8


Why Sigma Males Are HATED By Alpha Males

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lbMR20eScG4


Why Alpha Males NEVER Cross Sigma Males

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n1CEMdeeJOs



Alpha: Make the Rules.
Beta: Follow the Rules
Sigma: What Rules?
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Re: Tales From The Narc Side
« Reply #1760 on: October 22, 2024, 05:34:02 AM »

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Spot ON! This is how my experience on YouTube communities plays out. The smart guy in the room intimidates the masses. It's a THEM PROBLEM.
It's more disturbing than empowering. Why can't they grow their own brain, and use it wisely?
Social engineering is to blame.


They NEVER ran across a person like before. A Jealous Group IS GOING DOWN For TARGETING YOU!

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« Reply #1761 on: October 22, 2024, 05:49:30 AM »
They Can't Hide Their Envy Anymore. You were purposely TARGETED due to JEALOUSY.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ydxB3mELL8s
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« Reply #1762 on: October 22, 2024, 07:19:16 AM »
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My mom was a narcissist. She hated my independant energy, unconventional pursuits and brutal honesty. Tuff luck, mom, You ran your game and lost.


CHOSEN ONES | 7 SIGNS, WHY SHE HATES YOU SO MUCH

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I never heard i love you from my mom.

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I was a pebble in her shoe.



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Re: Tales From The Narc Side
« Reply #1763 on: October 22, 2024, 08:40:52 AM »

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Now-a-days, there are so many people who pretend they are like us--empathetic and sensitive--while, at the same time, still telling us we are too sensitive. So, they are recognizing it's a good thing to be empathetic and telling us we're doing it wrong..."Be yourself; but, not like that."


INFJ, THIS CHILDHOOD LIE IS RUINING ALL OUR LIVES

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« Reply #1764 on: October 22, 2024, 10:33:58 AM »
Ron Tello Culley
I was gonna say that.




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« Reply #1765 on: October 22, 2024, 11:54:31 AM »

CHOSEN ONES!! THEY BUILT THE SYSTEM AGAINST YOU, BUT GOD ANOINTED YOU TO
CRUSH IT !




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This explains a lot! Enemy of the state fits me well.
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« Reply #1766 on: October 22, 2024, 01:16:22 PM »
8 Signs People Recognize You Are The CHOSEN ONE


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I was treated horribly in the workplace so bad to the point that I had to quit working. People were always trying to get me fired on every job. I had to retire early and I still get treated bad by some people (neighbor); we can start off as friendly and polite but later down the line people seem to change on me for the worse. I never understood it until a co worker tried to explain being “blessed and highly favored” meant.


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« Reply #1767 on: October 22, 2024, 04:20:10 PM »
They ATTACK Your Character Because They're JEALOUS 💯They did you DIRTY BUT THIS HAPPENED

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« Reply #1768 on: October 23, 2024, 05:13:23 AM »
Your Enemies Are ASHAMED. They Gotta Take Back Everything They SAID

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VU9tt0Q8Tyw


Those Who Mocked You Will Bury Their Heads In Shame

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« Reply #1769 on: October 23, 2024, 05:24:04 AM »
Chosen Ones THE ONE WHO LAUGHS LAST, LAUGHS BEST


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« Reply #1770 on: October 23, 2024, 06:40:40 AM »
Reasons to Avoid Crossing a Sigma Male

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« Reply #1771 on: October 23, 2024, 08:34:33 AM »
Can someone be a narcissist without knowing?

Ab-so-felafeling-lutely!! I accused the Ex-N of this particular set of sins 2 years ago. Predictably, he played it off. For the longest time, I was under the impression he'd been called out before and was expert level deflecting his mental issues.

Fast forward back to more recent history, I found out quite the opposite in fact. I was going through his Google search history with a fine tooth comb and lo and behold! He had asked trusty Google what the definition of a narcissist was on the exact same day we'd initially conversed on the subject. My head low key exploded, my eyes were popping out in disbelief…the works. REALLY?!?! All that pain, the mistreatment, the dysfunctionality…and he had to felafeling Google it??!!

It spoke volumes upon volumes to me. Not one woman besides myself ever pointed out this teeny little issue with his mentality, let alone connected the dots enough to protest the injuries which occurred frequently when intimately involved with him. Sorry, let me rephrase. THE MASSIVE TITANIC SIZED ISSUES WITH EMOTIONAL WEAPONS OF MASS DESTRUCTION BUILT IN AS EXTRA SPECIAL FEATURES OF ANNIHILATION.

Whew. Even now I simply cannot wrap my brain around the concept that not only could he be blind as a bat to remain unaware til the age of 30, but no other lady either saw or was brave enough to express her dissatisfaction in regards to his extremely blatant relational problems.

Well, I'm here to take one for the team.

Trust me when I say….he is very aware now!
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Yes it is possible to be a narcissist and not realize it. Some narcissist come into self awareness. Most narcissist do not know they are narcissist. Some of them think they are good people who have made some mistakes. They do no see these patterns of behaviors and the excuses have been life long.

They make excuses for their behaviors saying things like I did not ask to be born this way, I can’t help the hand of cards that were dealt to me, everyone else does it I just got caught, you asked for it, it’s your fault if you would not have done this then I would not have done that. If they hurt you they feel like it’s your fault and you deserved it.

Some narcissist give themselves away and will brag about the things they said and did to others. They will say things like they don’t want to mess with me. You know me and I will mess them up. They think they are defending themselves while constantly looking for others to slight them. They think life has treated them unfairly and people are out to get them. They are the ultimate victim.

They only know they feel better after abusing you. They don’t realize they need narcissistic supply. They know they are being abusive. They understand they are abusive and some may have a feeling something is not right with them. They will have a million excuses for what that something is. For example some may drink and blame alcohol. Some will blame the pressures of work. Some will blame depression.

Narcissist want the world to think well of them. Most narcissist will help friends and strangers and never lift a finger for their family. People’s perception of them is very important. They will not want others knowing how abusive they are behind closed doors.

They are aware of their abusive behaviors. Abusing their wife, or partner supplies them. Even if they are not aware they are seeking narcissistic supply. Notice after hours and hours of arguing with you and tearing you down the narcissist can turn over and sleep like a baby.

While there are self aware narcissist who know exactly what they are many narcissist, the majority of narcissist do not know they are narcissist. And many think they are good people. I think it’s because they compare themselves to serial killers and if they are not a serial killer they think they are good people. They look at the serial killer and think I’m not that f*cked up.


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« Reply #1772 on: October 23, 2024, 11:24:27 AM »
Chosen one: Your Eyes Are More Scary Than You Think !

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« Reply #1773 on: October 23, 2024, 12:31:03 PM »
CHOSEN ONES, THEY'VE TRIED TO DESTROY U SINCE A CHILD! GOD GIVES U DOUBLE FOR ALL THE TRAUMA & PAIN

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« Reply #1774 on: October 23, 2024, 02:09:55 PM »
Narcs are victims of their own evilness.
Karma is Ensuring Total Failure for The Narcissist and Their New Supply!

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« Reply #1775 on: October 23, 2024, 02:39:56 PM »
:tello: "I'm not so sure about this one".

Narcissists Are Constantly Thinking About You and Will Deeply Regret Losing You!


@hibbertsh
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Let them feel the weight of that loss, they need to learn a lesson even if it is a distorted way.
Gives them something to think about, that their unacceptable behavior with not be tolerated by all that they have targeted.
We being empathic, cannot allow them back.
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« Reply #1776 on: October 23, 2024, 05:53:47 PM »
How severe is
narcissistic abuse?

Narcissistic abuse has to be one of the worst most cruel types of abuse. It leaves the victim drained, unsure of themselves and the person who is abusing them. causes depression, anxiety and low self esteem. It can play out as emotional, psychological or physical. They will criticize, gaslight, and covert narcs use passive aggressive statements. They will guilt you and blame you for everything that is wrong. They play demeaning mind games. Deceive and trick. Lies, lies and more lies.

The longer they are allowed to torment you, the worse it will get. It's really bad. It's not over when you get away from these people. You have life long issues with depression, anxiety, panic attacks and PTSD. Healing is possible, but it takes determination, sometimes therapy, the ups and downs of being a victim (good days and bad).

It sometimes takes years to recover, although some never fully recover. It's because the abuse is so thought out and intentional. Purposely done to destroy our very soul.
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It’s about the most severe form of mental torture you will put yourself through.

Notice how I mention “yourself.” I am trying to get away from taking the majority of the blame for what I went through. I’m big on accountability, but I can take it to a new level.

Yea, I realized what was going on about three years in, hell, might have been year two. But “I” stayed, she wasn’t twisting my arm.

She clearly showed me time and time again who she was with all the lies, cheating, gaslighting and manipulation. But here I stayed, waiting, hoping and begging her to change. That’s like any irrational mindset when in addiction. Hoping the person will change.

If I’d just stayed and accepted the abuse and her as she was it would have been a lot easier. It’s fight it is when it really got bad.

Little did I know I was changing myself in this process. I was doing further damage to an already fragile, and emotional traumatized mind I had no idea was this bad until I met her.

She’s gone now, about 14 months gone. And I still question what the felafel it was. The other day I had a moment where I actually felt sorry for her. I mean, “is that felafeling normal?” Normal, maybe, rational? felafel no!

Someone who lied to you about being married, only to hook you in with deceit and, f*ck your best friend.

Show utter no form of empathy in some of the most miserable times in my life only to double down on my trauma, and gaslight me into believing my reactions were abuse. All while I started thinking I was the narcissists.

I still look back and scratch my head to what went on.

That’s the problem with the Covert type. Their faked empathy, apologizing and tears will create a form of addictive trauma bond that death will seem like a better option of escape, than living without this person.

I actually minimized and justified her abuse towards me. I would continually make excuses for her bullshit all because she would have that “damsel in distress” bullshit.

Looking back, the damage was done long ago. But I stayed 3–4 years longer than I should have. But with my childhood trauma, apparently it felt “normal” to me.

Now I’m left with the hazmat team to clean up the mess I was left with. There was blood being shed before she came into my life. She just made sure to loosen the tourniquet to help me bleed out.

I don’t know what emotions are right any more, I don’t. I get lost in the translation of them all when severe anxiety hits with any perceived sense of an abandonment.

I feel like a nuisance, and hassle to most people in my life. No one understands this bullshit, or childhood trauma for that matter, unless they are highly aware and in tune with theirs emotions.

It’s takes months, or maybe years of research to even begin to wrap your mind around what you just went through. And even then you won’t believe yourself.

How severe does something have to be when a snake has bitten you time, and time again. And with each bite you end up in the ER with the doctor telling you to stop going in the area where these snakes are.

But you ignore the professionals and yourself and keep going back.

Looking, hoping, begging and praying it stops biting you.

It’s about as severe as it gets. Can’t think of anything more severe.
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The damage inflicted by a narcissist is like an invisible dagger, piercing deep within you. You might think it's their wicked words that cause the harm, shredding your self-esteem and turning you into a mere shadow of your former self. But truth is, it's the behaviors they plant in you that keep this toxic cycle alive.

They master the art of positive reinforcement, only granting their support when you belittle yourself and bow down. These actions, born from their hurtful words, keep you shackled in emotional turmoil. At first, you might brush off their words and actions, pretending they mean nothing, feigning indifference. But as time passes, those thoughts infiltrate your mind, festering like a ticking time bomb. Eventually, the explosion comes, again and again, fueled by frustration and anger.

You find yourself locked in an internal battle, desperately clinging to civility while they relentlessly push you toward the edge of sanity. They eagerly await the chance to taunt you, reveling in your "craziness." Despite your seething fury and lack of desire to do anything for them, you reluctantly comply, all in the pursuit of proving your inherent goodness.

Deep down, you simmer with rage, hidden behind a façade of composure. They deploy cunning strategies, conducting forceful reconnaissance, convincing you they're cheating. They go to great lengths to plant doubt in your mind, leading you on a wild goose chase to catch them in the act. But alas, you stumble upon them innocently engaged in unrelated affairs, leaving you feeling foolish and deceived.

Their manipulation breeds self-doubt, making you question your own perception and interpretation of events. They use this incident as a weapon, dissuading you from ever daring to question their true deceitful actions. The nagging feeling that something is amiss gnaws at your core, but the countless times you've been proven wrong stifles your courage to confront the truth.

A narcissist's ultimate goal is to poison your sense of self-worth. Their hurtful words inflict pain, but it is your submissive response that allows these beliefs to take root in your very being. Slowly but surely, you transform into a vessel of negativity, perpetuating and reinforcing these destructive emotions even when they are absent. As a consequence, you find yourself trapped in a relentless cycle of self-destruction.

You bear witness as your life crumbles into everything you despise, and, tragically, you become the person you once detested. You make excuses, promising yourself that change will come, but now you're caught in a web of torment. Your days are consumed by battling negative emotions instead of truly living. Your thoughts are entangled in rationalizations for the narcissist's actions, all in an attempt to preserve the illusion of sanity and kindness.

In essence, you're ensnared within the clutches of this relentless cycle, yearning desperately to break free from the suffocating grip of negative emotions that dominate your existence. Did I miss anything?

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« Reply #1777 on: October 24, 2024, 07:25:32 AM »
How Narcissists are Part of a Dangerous Cult

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« Reply #1778 on: October 24, 2024, 07:33:41 AM »
Do This and Watch How Quickly a Narcissist Fears You

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« Reply #1779 on: October 24, 2024, 07:39:20 AM »
This Video is About MAD Magazine

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« Reply #1780 on: October 24, 2024, 08:17:07 AM »
Watch the Narcissist Trip Themselves Up by Underestimating You

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« Reply #1781 on: October 25, 2024, 11:58:26 AM »
CHOSEN ONES, THEY BUILT THE SYSTEM AGAINST YOU, BUT GOD ANOINTED YOU TO CRUSH IT!

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« Reply #1782 on: October 25, 2024, 01:04:30 PM »
They want you back to finish you off!
THE NARCISSIST DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO REPAIR BURNED BRIDGES!!


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« Reply #1783 on: October 25, 2024, 01:17:17 PM »
"The forest was shrinking but the trees kept voting for the axe, for the axe was clever and convinced the trees that because his handle was made of wood he was one of them." 
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« Reply #1784 on: October 25, 2024, 01:44:40 PM »
Narcissists Want You To Lose More Than You Think


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My X-narc GF tricked me into separating me from my tools. In legal terms, I claim this has resulted in LOSS OF PRESENT AND FUTURE EARNINGS. Confronting her about this will probably result in further damages. I need a Mediator.


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« Reply #1785 on: October 25, 2024, 02:06:49 PM »
When You’re No Longer Fooled! Here’s How Narcissists Will Try to Retaliate!


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« Reply #1786 on: October 25, 2024, 02:19:57 PM »
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« Reply #1787 on: October 25, 2024, 02:35:21 PM »
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« Reply #1788 on: October 25, 2024, 04:55:14 PM »
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« Reply #1789 on: October 26, 2024, 03:18:39 AM »
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« Reply #1790 on: October 27, 2024, 06:32:24 AM »
When you meet new people, you don't try to get them to like you. Instead, you look for reasons to like them.
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« Reply #1791 on: October 27, 2024, 10:43:53 AM »
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« Reply #1792 on: October 28, 2024, 12:54:27 PM »
How does a narcissist lie to so many people?

Because they want to. It’s their MO.

They are very good at what they do. What many of us don’t understand at first is that they’ve been down this road many many times, especially if you’ve been dealing with an older narcissist.

Also, their mindset is much different than ours, it’s hard to get a handle on until you are forced to recognize it. It’s so foreign to your average bear lol. Although thinking about it I realize that it’s become so predominant that it is becoming very normal to encounter these people in everyday life. We need to be aware.

They dupe so many people because it’s pretty easy to do to an innocent.

The situation I am in now I look more like a narc than him to the untrained eye. It’s just that I know what I’m dealing with and hit back. I just don’t take the sh!t anymore. It becomes a mess lol. Kind of sad what they do isn’t it. And yes if I was 100% I’d be gone and stayed gone. It’s still a process.

My new motto is once you have seen you can’t unsee . It’s changed my life.

Also it’s been my observation that not all of them necessarily know what they are doing or at the least can’t help what they are doing. The malignant ado, the lesser are as much a victim and but you can’t cut them any slack regardless, they will take you down regardless they can’t help it. Bottom line it’s who is they are no matter where they are in the scale. Sympathy will be your undoing here.

Better to just go no contact it’s the only way to be free and live the life you were meant to.
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Superficial charm and an ability to create shallow rapport very quickly. They are very good at framing situations to make other people look like the bad guy, and at projecting their bad behavior onto other people. A narcissist injects himself into the life of everyone who is cared by or cares about the supply, building trust with them.

They attempt to manipulate the supply into sabotaging and abandoning their own friendships, and they lie about them and spread gossip and false drama across the social circle of the supply to make them look bad.

They’ll even act unbearable to the supplies friends or family if that is what it takes to drive them away. Once the supply is relatively isolated they love bomb the supply, to keep them hooked, and to hide the impending psychological and emotional abuse.
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Look. A narcassists life is built on lies, deception, dishonesty, manipulation, cheating, etc.

They tell so many lies that they loose track of whats true and a lie. They convince themselves that lies are true. However. They are highly focussed on spreading this blurb to anyone, they taylor the lies to suit the victim they are manipulating. The lie is a tool to get the reward or benefit they seek, and manipulation of yheir current supply. Equally, at the same time they are tailoring different lies to the person they are cheating with whilst with you.

Its best to assume everything being blurted out to you is a lie because it almost certainly is. Absolute craftsmen they are at it. And its extremely difficult to catch them out

A gay friend of mine was told by his narcissist partner that he couldn't have sex with him because he was sore down below from over aggressive self satisfaction. It was later proved that the soreness was because he had sex with his lined up replacement that very morning, aggressively. The two victims did meet and became partners, absolutely incensing the cheating narc to the point he went to the police and claimed he had been raped.

This, after months of investigation was proved to be a lie. Bitter, twisted and dangerous they can become. Whatever their orientation, the narc is almost certainly lying and cheating on a string of old and new supplies at the same time. Giving them a feeling of power and greatness that they can manipulate many people at the same time.

If you are in a relationship with a narc its almost certainly a 3,4,5 way relationship, with lies being blurted out taylor made to keep you sweet. Take for granted that everything is a lie, the relationship, promises, their love for you etc etc, its all a means to an end and the lie is their greatest tool in achieving that.
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I can assure you that every human being can be duped by these evil beings.

They are able to fake so naturally that to me, their acting is beyond Oscar winning! It is incredible and you will understand this only when you have been a victim to one of them.



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« Reply #1793 on: October 28, 2024, 02:01:48 PM »
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« Reply #1794 on: October 28, 2024, 02:11:34 PM »
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« Reply #1795 on: October 28, 2024, 04:29:42 PM »
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« Reply #1796 on: November 01, 2024, 10:37:16 AM »
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« Reply #1797 on: November 01, 2024, 07:49:00 PM »
Why do narcissists avoid talking about the real issues?

They do not have time for you. You bore them to death.They never ever cared for you. This is why you get totally ignored all the time. Because they have no problems that you are entitled to know about. Just ask them. They will give you the silent treatment as a punishment. How dare you question what they do or say.

They are entitled.

Just because….If you ask them they will just give you a word salad or totally ignore you all together. Gaslight you with more lies. You will never ever get your question answered. They love to play these games. The narcissist may even pull up something that happened last year now you are defending something that you never did last year by the time you leave you never even got your problem or questioned answered.

It’s totally exhausting to be around a narcissist. Don’t try to figure why they do what they do. Just RUN and don’t look back. You're in a manipulationship not a relationship.
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Imagine that you are dealing with a two-year-old who is having a tantrum. You wouldn't try to reason with the child because you know the child does not understand. The child only knows want and need, and in the mind of a child, these things are one and the same.

They throw tantrums and scream because as toddlers, they have no other skills or tools to use to get needs met. They only have overwhelming emotion because their needs are not being met, and they scream because they cannot meet these needs themselves.

This is the same way the narcissistic adult reacts. They don't all scream or throw tantrums, but the process is still the same: they cannot meet their needs themselves, so they endeavor to create ways to force others to do it for them. They may try manipulation.

If that doesn't work, guilt. If guilt does not work, they may throw a tantrum. If a tantrum doesn't work, they might try threats. If they have to, they might resort to violence. They will keep cycling through this behavior until their needs are met because they cannot take care of it themselves.

A narcissist with no one to meet their needs is like a baby left in the woods alone: helpless. And they know it. This is why they engage in so many of the behaviors that they do, from smear campaigns to gaslighting. They need to make sure the target will continue to take care of them.

They only feel confident of this when they have broken the victim down completely. A narcissist who has asserted dominance over a victim is in control. A narcissist in control is a narcissist that feels safe. When they no longer feel safe, that is when we see abuse in all its forms. There is no real cause for it that can be pinpointed; something in the narcissist's mind has made them feel insecure and so in order to counteract that feeling, they need to assert dominance - preferably over an easy target.
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With my family this was one of the biggest issues I had before I had learned what it was I was dealing with.

it is typical narcissist, they can not and will not take any accountability for the crap they do, if trying to address it when it happens you get shut down and shut up.

it’s still there and in time when you bring it up again it becomes the good old “the past is the past” but every little thing they can hold over your head about any little thing you have ever done is brought up and thrown back at ya, so it only applies to their crap and they all do it!

They can’t stand to hear anything they have done wrong!

the past is the past is just to get you off topic of their crap!

It’s maddening!!!


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« Reply #1798 on: November 01, 2024, 09:14:27 PM »
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