Tales From The Narc Side

[tellomon]

When You Do This The Narcissist Knows
They Are Losing Control

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iEHxjGLmyY

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The Narcissist Discarded
You But It Makes Them Insane And Miserable!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-JIAcOkgWRU

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5 Reasons why the CHOSEN ONES are hated the most
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rrdef7i60pc


How Do Narcissists React When They Think You're Too Powerful ? I'm sure you will be surprised
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJzXWzj799A


THE BLOCKING GAMES OF THE NARCISSIST
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CIVElQPtf4M


Emotional rules for empaths in a world of narcissists
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=03-kSX9vHTo


Demonic Activity - Never Underestimate the Power of Narcissism
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_oNXEBL3zfI


8 Symptoms of Covert Narcissistic NEGLECT And How It Destroys You
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=daZC98qrZIU


A Narcissist's Love Bombing, Flattery, And Helpfulness
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKEjiyDivcc


Spotting Covert Narcissist Mind Games
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qegEONXAPUY


Don't Get Fooled: 8 Signs You're Dealing With An Evil Person
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=deOZfJpolCA


Your Greatest Revenge Against The Narcissist
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFY5yXh63jo


The KEY to understand both narcissism and narcissistic abuse
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ozBMIm1NxxI


The Narcissist Can Trick You With This
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aVz3OH7DNo4


This Is Why You Cannot Trust A Narcissist
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xVsSegnfV2I


Why You Can Never Trust a Narcissist | Dr. David Hawkins
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fH8ZekSo6Ac&t=67s


3 Things The Narcissist Destroys To Break You And Control You
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tbZmyqtQDFg


How Narcissists Ultimately Implode
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KfjMIPNH3i4


With Narcissists There Cannot Be Only One
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9tVjKu1erRs


5 Steps To Stop Ruminating And Evict The Narcissist From Your Head
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8NKpmXQL-s


Why Narcissists Self-Destruct
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cF3pGDey_uE&t=278s


Trouble Every Day
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rFNkacckLBU

[tellomon]

Is everything transactional for a narcissist?

I would describe a contract as two or more people entering into an agreement for some type of services rendered. All parties are knowingly and willingly in agreement with the contract. In the narcissist point of view, they don't have to be in any type of agreement with anyone or anything or go out of their way when in a relationship.
 
They are going to do whatever they want regardless. They are a spirit of contradiction and live their lives in secrecy. They make all the rules and regulations and don't follow any of them. They don't have to render any type of service and they always have a personal gain.They are solemnly interested in collecting, on all benefits without any effort put forth. They use you and abuse you all in the name of love. You always have to prove your love for them, your most loyalty, etc.

But, for the narcissist unless he is able to lie, con and false project himself into entering this false contract, he will find himself alone. It's all an illusion and a delusion. Very sad! Meanwhile he will drag everyone that he comes across thru the mudd for his own selfish, egotistical, grandiose, manipulative, abusive, toxic purpose. All his labors have been negative with no fruits to bare.

You are the only one that bares the burden of the contract, to always love them regardless of their bad behavior towards you. There is no contract for the narcissist, he is alone and will always be!

https://www.quora.com/Is-everything-transactional-for-a-narcissist

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Why is the narcissist suffering at least internally?

Let me try to explain this so called suffering. Let us first address the actions of the narcissist.

Greed for money
Raging
Hatred
Envy
Criticism
Negative attitude
Frustration

Now when you squeeze a lemon, what comes out of it - lemon juice and likewise since the actions of the narcissist are the above, this is what he has inside him. Now if you have this kind of negative attitude, do you expect this human being to have happiness inside?

No of course not. There is a battle of negativity and shame.

And please this suffering is caused because they made a huge decision in life. A decision to lose their conscience, a decision to cause harm to other human beings.
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They have a deep wound in their core. It isn't seen by everyone but actually I think many people can see that inner child in the narc and think it is the person being cute when actually it is dangerous to put up with that shite.

They are so hurt internally that they fail to accept certain truths of life: that no one is flawless, that everybody is an individual with his or her own needs, that there are boundaries in every relationship. They lack an ability to differentiate between their own inner perspective and the perspective of the other person. It is truly sad but I think they really feel that hurt that they project on you.

I give you an example.

My narc flatmate had a long term boyfriend that was very committed to her. She nonetheless had had a friend before she wanted to get into a relationship with. While she still had her boyfriend, she still couldn't let go of that other “friend" and want him as a relationship Partner.

The rejection was as real to her as if it was her partner. When that former friend had a date, which could have been un-bothering to her, she cut her legs. That's why i thought it was Borderline first, but it wasn't. She was completely lacking the ability to see that she didn't own this person . She raged and twisted and turned ignoring the fact that she actually had a committed boyfriend whom she claimed to love. She ignored the fact that this wasn't normal behaviour. All that counted was the hurt, which was perceived as very very real.

https://www.quora.com/Why-is-the-narcissist-suffering-at-least-internally?topAns=164031923

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Why would a narcissist ever
admit they’re a narcissist?

NO. I'm willing to bet if you call him/her a narcissist to the person's face. That person will accuse … You … of being the narcissist!!!

My own personal experience … is like this …and … this isn't all of it.

Everyone, except the narcissist, will walk on eggshells every moment of every day to avoid getting into an outburst. Then the narcissist wonders why their family and friends don't come to visit them.

Every birthday party, holiday, or celebration will be ruined, either before you leave or on the way there because it's not about them. They must always be the center of attention.

There is no love with a narcissist. The words "I love you" are empty and have no meaning to them. They just say it to keep you under their control and to give you false hope.

They will always lie to you and deceive you. The truth is not in them. You will never be able to trust them. They will claim that you are the liar.

If you put your attention elsewhere, they can't handle it. So, you'll be screamed at or shamed in some way for paying attention to someone else's happiness. You should have kept your big mouth shut.

They feed off your pain, embarrassment, and tears. You'll never be happy around them. You don't even smile. You'll feel like you don't deserve happiness.

You'll look at them, begging them to understand and show compassion or empathy, but they won't. You can see it in their eyes; they don't care, and it empowers them.

Your thoughts, feelings and opinions don't matter to them, even if they ask for them. Making you feel so dumb or stupid for saying anything at all.

You'll want them out of the house, but you'll also crave their presence when they're gone.

While they're home, you don't want to be near them, but their presence somehow comforts you. You'll hide in your room while they are in another room, hoping they'll see you, but they won't.

You'll constantly wonder if you're good enough each day. Yesterday you were happy because you felt good enough, but today you're sad because you don't. Nothing you do will ever be good enough.

You'll become addicted to something just to escape the pain of feeling worthless and all alone. You'll feel like you can be thrown away at any point. You believe no one sees what is going on and nobody cares. You will even consider suicide.

You won't have access to money unless you hide it around the house. You'll feel like you're slowly burning from the inside out. You'll cry, staring at the wall, trying to figure out why your feelings are wrong. You'll feel like a defeated robot sent to please them.

You'll hide when you hear their car pull up, getting knots in your stomach. You'll be blamed, targeted, lied to, manipulated, and told to get a life when you do.

Their family and friends won't like you; they'll think you're worthless. They'll tell the narcissist to get rid of you because they believe you are a trouble maker. You'll constantly wonder if they'll come home happy or angry.

They will threatened you with death to keep you in line. You become a prisoner in your own home. You will not be able to go anywhere by yourself. They will take your things away from you or destroy them. They will take the children away from you and turn them against you. You will always live in fear, not knowing what is going to happen next.

You'll start to mimic their traits because you're lost inside. You'll beg for them to be removed from your life. You won't get a full night's sleep. You'll be responsible for everyone's emotional well-being in the house, neglecting yourself.

You'll be ignored for days or weeks, as if you're not even there. Then, everything is forgotten and swept under the rug until the next time you upset them. You'll lose sight of your hopes and dreams and doubt every move you make.

You'll never have someone meet you in the middle, no compromising. You do what they want, how they want, when they want. Your needs are neglected and insulted. You'll end up feeling crazy, lost, depleted, confused, and helpless. Love isn't supposed to feel like this, is it? They want you to stay like this, as long as you stay, it will be this way, forever.

You will finally feel like something is very wrong. You will not be able to remember anything you have said or done to deserve the way they treat you. You will get tired of feeling unloved and drained of energy. You will finally figure out they aren't worth all the pain they put you through.
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I believe that the “aware” narcissists will, and if they do, best believe, they are proud of it. They will admit it in subtle ways by consciously projecting their own gross, and usually sadistic tendencies onto you. Nothing brings a narcissist more pleasure than to see you upset or confused or in pain, especially over them. That is the ultimate compliment. Your devastation for them is their fuel. The ultimate feast. They trifling asses. They’re predictable and annoying once you identify their “game”. They have very little originality and don’t do well under pressure. Oh yeah, and suffer from the most ridiculous delusions of grandeur. Embarrassing.
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Narcissists will admit nothing. Except being pretty damn perfect.

In fact, Narcs will try to deny, avoid, dismiss, reject, most everything. Including you. Because they really don't care.

You will always be to blame. And accountable for all problems.

Accept this. See Narcs for what they really are.

Petulantly childish spoilt little brats. Who will never grow up.
They lack any real capacity or capability to change.

Clutching at straws, whilst getting shite smeared, is no good place to be.

So leave the Narc in the play pen/cess pit of their own life.

Let someone else have a go at changing Narc diapers, and become the shiny, new toy.

Say “fangs for the memory." Go “once bitten, twice shy.” No play time, no pay time.

Narc game over. Don't keep knocking yourself down. Because hell ain't a good place to be.

Rise above it. You said hello to a devilish imp. Time has now come to wave it goodbye.

https://www.quora.com/Why-would-a-narcissist-ever-admit-they-re-a-narcissist

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What will happen if you don’t react to the narcissists sick games?

Narcissists play mind games in order to elicit emotional responses from their significant others..

They want their partners to react emotionally, either by talking or doing something. It could be a good or bad kind of attention, but the only bad one for them is when they're ignored.

When narcissists trick their partners and see them upset, it makes the narcissists feel powerful and in control. This feeling is like food for them; it gives them what they need to keep up their fake image.

If partners don't react to the mean games played by narcissists, the narcissists start feeling emotionally hungry. They need those reactions to feel satisfied.

https://www.quora.com/What-will-happen-if-you-don-t-react-to-the-narcissists-sick-games?topAns=1477743732492983

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Narc Stories: You Won’t Believe It

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HEtj4PCl1rc

@tulipmichelle
2 years ago
All the Narcs need to be sent to the War going on.

[tellomon]

Who Can Drive A
Narcissist Crazy?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2m5BIP68u0g

@Eese.
@racebannon96
1 year ago
If you cause a Narcissist Injury to a Narcissist, you will have a lifetime enemy.  They will spend years and probably decades retaliating against you.

@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807
1 year ago
They also hate no contact or being ignored

@calvarado1520
9 months ago (edited)
Never fear the narcissist, expose the narcissist for who they really are and have no sympathy plus have no mercy whatsoever on the narcissist.

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This is what narcissists go through in silence: they have one regret that they don't talk about

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PC1v697sLZw

@deeanthony7713
1 year ago
Apology from a Narcissist????? What is that??????? I was with a Narcissist, for, almost 16 years and in all that time, I never had the Narcissist apologize even one time, to me, or anyone else, for that matter. Why, you might ask? My Narcissist tells me that they are NEVER wrong...everyone else is wrong.

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Why Chosen Ones Attract Monitoring Spirits

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vG6ndQkwxig

@jamisenjohansen
1 day ago
Thank you for posting this. I think we all need to discuss these "Monitoring Spirits" a lot more. I'm glad to see the shift in society, that wasn't present just a couple decades ago; as the internet allowed us to quickly share ideas across the world, so we don't feel alone, and now we know that others are going through the same challenges.

Even more exciting is the psychic field of information, where we don't even need the internet in order to evolve and grow and understand; as the collective consciousness is becoming more awakened.

It is so wonderful to witness that more and more people talk about spirits and negative entities, without hiding behind their religions out of fear and misunderstandings, thinking that some religious faction member will save them when it never does, or worse, blaming an innocent for being evil just because they were attacked or victimized their entire lives by something that scares the other person; or pretending things don't exist, and calling someone insane, just because something is invisible or it never happened to them. It is comforting to talk about spiritual things without everything being tainted by a religious perspective that often does more harm than good.

I've had negative entities interfere with my path all my life. In spirit form, they can and will do physical damage. But to access a person they need to get through a person's psychic and magnetic field; which is mostly possible if they target someone who has never known love, always been betrayed and abandoned, never had a friend, and who's self worth is very low because they never had protection or support in their lives. The only form of true protection you can have for yourself is self love. And they constantly try to interfere with that.

The moment you try to look at yourself in the mirror, after struggling with self worth and self image, the moment you look yourself in the eyes to see your real beauty, then there's a loud disruptive noise that shatters your foundations. The moment you think about a hug, or a kiss, or finding true love; the same loud disruption happens. The distractions and coincidences and interferences are calculated and orchestrated by beings that do not respect or honor us. They also use people, who have no psychic awareness or shielding, as puppets to make sure interference is always constant.

In my most key moments of vulnerability and growth, where I needed peace and happiness the most; always, every time, they interfere with that precious moment of self reflection and comfort by making someone nearby cough at the most horribly inappropriate moment, or use them to make a loud bang that frightens and disrupts my sense of peace. I have witnessed people become possessed, and watched their postures change, as they would glare over at me from a distance with a grin.

And nothing has ever protected or saved me. I can sense the presence of spirits, but when I call out to them, demanding an explanation for their allowance of these evil entities to interfere with each and every new beginning I am trying to embrace; I get no respect, no answers. I feel surrounded by beings that only mock and laugh and interfere, but not one good spirit exists to prevent this, or to comfort my mind. Not one random good spirit, drifting on by.

The only thing I feel from them is a mixture of hatred and fear. I've never been able to sense anything good. And they have succeeded in isolating me, and preventing any solid foundation from forming so I can launch off of that and build and grow and flourish. All I can try to believe in is karma and justice, but it's difficult only knowing the bad and never the good.

The only bit of advice I can give someone is: Protect yourself with self love and self worth; Try your best to not respond if they're trying to get you to react; And remove yourself from people who are easily manipulated to disrupt your happiness and wellbeing.

I hope that karma and justice come swiftly, because I'm ready for this nightmare to be over.

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[tellomon]

Don't Mess With
the Chosen Ones

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L7jxtnej-u4

@creatorzdistrict
1 month ago
Usually when I see the term “Chosen Ones” I skip, was led to click & it’s authentic…..Real ones know this isn’t an easy path but we understand that we’re different from day one. We innately know we’re protected.

[tellomon]

Instant Regret For WOKE Google Staff!
30 ARRESTED & Instantly FIRED
For Pro-Palestine MELTDOWN

https://rumble.com/v4q959e-instant-regret-for-woke-google-staff-30-arrested-and-instantly-fired-for-pr.html?utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=The%20Quartering

RonTello
9:00 reminds me of NURSURY SCHOOL. Do we know where the Parents are?

[tellomon]

This is what makes narcissists regret throwing you away and making other people want to kill you|NPD

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aR0-2u_UAw8

@lemontmeade8
20 hours ago
The realization is being in relationship with the narcissist is like being a fly trapped in a spider web. The spider watches the fly suffer and struggle to get free as the spider creeps closer and closer then drain the fly from the inside.

[tellomon]

When karma comes to narcissists, they are very tormented and will suffer to the point of death |NPD|

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=re70hgx6tI8

@arthurcurry7688
1 day ago
Is it not a crime against humanity when another human being treats another human being with cruelty and deliberate deception? Why is it that Narcissists seem to get away with their evil deliberate tactics of deception on their victims and with their "Flying Monkeys"? If 'others' can spot a Narcissist from a mile away, why then aren't these individuals being exposed to the police for the crimes that they commit? (Ex: like Stalking.)

Whatever happened to the saying: "IF YOU SEE SOMETHING - SAY SOMETHING". What of the legal crimes that Narcissists commit? (Ex: like hacking into cellphones and emails, stealing personal belongings, Polygamy, and defamation.) Where is the legal justice here?? Forget Karma!

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Malignant Narcissism

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9XGEG0enww&t=420s

"None of us is responsible for the events that shaped our personality, but we are responsible for what we do about it.
The better you come to know yourself, the more empowered you become to make better decisions."

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This is The Narcissist's Hidden Side

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_UWQB8HMqfo

@juliechristianson8009
1 year ago
Hidden depression, a new revealing revelation.



@gracelynbatoon
1 year ago
Deep down they know that there is problem with them..but too afraid too confront it.



@rimbakei5492
1 year ago
I think their depression is because they have chosen to be evil in the first place instead of trying to heal their trauma in a correct way.

[tellomon]

The Narcissist Does This To Avoid Self-Reflection

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X3r1B1LAj40

@racebannon96
1 year ago
Narcissists need for drama, chaos, and lying will be exhausting to anyone that is involved with them.  Narcissists never get better and are constantly searching for new supply.  For your own peace and sanity, leave quietly, and go No Contact.  Helping a Narcissist is a waste of time because they incapable of learning and will make the same or similar mistakes over and over again.



@milkywaypride99
1 year ago
Yep
You’re just an object to them. A transaction. A meal ticket. You never meant anything to the narcissist. They’re truly incapable of loving deeply and honestly. You were real, you are divine love and you are NOT crazy. You are worthy.


@shelley7975
1 year ago
Obsessed with people and things.  Anything to take the focus off them.

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Here Are Six Reasons Why Narcissists Are Actually Unhappy And Miserable | NPD

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1U1TLUm4yw

@Dansyoung
1 year ago
They expect sympathy because boohoo they had a rough childhood…

Do you look at an arsonist and go - oh poor you, something bad must of happened to you in your life to make you like this.  Or do you shame them for their actions because they are an adult and should be held accountable.

My sympathy ran out - don’t feel bad for someone slowly poisoning you, life is too short.



@cyberninjasworld
1 year ago
They are always facing reality vs their fantasy narc world...



@exposed.algeriansatanicnar1565
1 year ago
No one cares. Talk about the broken victims.

[tellomon]

4.19.24  3:05 PM PST Live Report.

"It's about the cesspool called YouTube, the ruins of the Dylan Rounds community.
Bob Farrell. His ticket to hell is paid in full.
This is c & p of his community page today; he's rolling out the Jim Terry wannabe rhetoric,
slamming on people and things in a most immature manner.
This is no way to broadcast in a Polite Society.
He and his remaining audience are possessed with THE DARK.
You be the Trained Observer".

Bob Farrell14 hours ago
LEANNE COME ON, YOU WON'T CALL ME BECAUSE YOU WILL BE A TRADER COME ON , BUT IT'S OK FOR YOU TO CALL JIM TERRY , THE MAN YOU HATE SO MUCH, WHAT THE FloCK IS THIS, DO AS I SAY, NOT AS I DO. NUMBER 24 RATE FOR YOU LEANNE I KNOW YOU LOVE THESE

Bob Farrell
Bob Farrell14 hours ago
AND YOU OTHER FOOLS OUT THERE, THAT I SAY THINGS, I DON'T SAY, KEEP YOUR MOUTHS SHUT, OH I THINK I HEARD HIM CALL HIM A 'PEDO' NO YOU DIDN'T YOU FOOL I HAVE NEVER CALLED KURT OR TROY THAT STATEMENT NEVER

Bob Farrell
Bob Farrell14 hours ago
#RONTELLO IF I WERE YOU I WOULD CALL UP THAT LIFE LINE COMPANY THAT HAS THE LIEN ON YOUR PROPERTY AND GIVE THEM THE PROPERTY FOR $1.00 YOU WILL NEVER SELL THAT shite HOLE IN A MILLION YEARS, YOU A FOOL ALSO FROM PROUD AMERICA MONTELLO NEVADA GIVE ME THE NAME OF THE ATTORNEY FOR THAT COMPANY, LET ME MAKE THEM A SETTLEMENT OFFER FOR THE LIEN, AND I WILL GIVE YOU $25.00 SO YOU CAN GET SOME PROPANE TO SNIFF. LET ME KNOW YOU HAVE MY NUMBER FOOL
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Bob Farrell
Bob Farrell14 hours ago
I RUN A BAR HE SAYS, BIG FLUCKING DEAL , AND NOW I WAS A SIT IN AT THE POLICE DEPARTMENT WHERE I WORKED FOR 27 YRS WHAT AN IDIOT, HIGH SCHOOL DROP OUT AND DIRT BAG LIKE HIS BROTHER'S AND SISTER'S ONE PROUD FAMILY THEM WADSWORTHS ARE. UPSTANDING CITIZENS OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA , MONTELLO NEVADA LAND OF THE DIRT BAGS AND THIEFS AND DRUGGIES PLEASE COME AND DRINK AND EAT AT MY BAR HE SAYS. FACE ME FACE TO FACE, I RATHER SHITE ON THE FRONT STOOP OF THE DOOR THAN WALK IN THAT BAR.
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   "Truely, this may very well
be MY CUE to bust-out slingin'.
       TellOvision. TM
There's a pool, 5 to 1 Bob will be un-alived by August.
After that is the BF minion's problem, part 2. Interesting that ppl talk ABOUT me but will not talk WITH me. Cowards. I scare everybody, we know. Prolly a "Chosen One" thang.

https://www.youtube.com/@Bob-Farrell/community

            Deal with it M8

[tellomon]

"And now, a Poem by my friend
Mister Fish".

Running as fast as I can from what I can't see.
Stumbling over and trying to avoid hitting the trees.
One eye looking over my shoulder, frantically.
Falling down hurting and scuffing my knee.
I better watch out.
I don't know what's about.
Wondering if this is only a dream.
Nightmarish feeling and wanting to scream.
Now tripping and rolling down a grassy like hill.
Till I hit the bottom, reeling from such a terrible spill.
But when I look up.
Quickly and abrupt.
No one around that I can possibly see.
I know I was being chased, so how could this be.
Then suddenly I'm sitting up in my bed.
Was that all just really inside of my head.
But I've been there before.
This I know for sure.
Is it me running from myself.
It's a question of mental health.

By Gregory Fish

[tellomon]

Chosen Ones, You were Born into a FICTION IDENTITY
Don't Defend It

Dive deep into the heart of identity and authenticity with Obsidian's latest atmospheric exploration. In a world that often demands conformity, discover the courage it takes to shed the layers of societal expectation and embrace the raw, vibrant core of your true self. From the masks we wear to the profound journey toward living authentically, this video is a call to those seeking to untangle their essence from the web of imposed identities.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N4DxjNYtZ0I

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Sketchy people I swear


645 views  Premiered Jun 26, 2023
Let’s do this.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pUT-W1_VBJ0

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The Difficult Truth
Chosen Ones Must Face

@MonochromaticBlues
1 day ago (edited)
You can save others by starting with yourself…learn to protect yourself…gain the right discernment for righteous vs false prophets. Once there is a will there is a way. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. All it takes is the will of a mustard seed within your soul.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0PpKkZnrUe8

[tellomon]

Your Inner Magic: Activate Your Hidden Energy
(Energy as Magic)

This video invites you on an enlightening exploration into the essence of your own power, your inner magic. Today, we strip away the mystery surrounding this profound concept to reveal how it is a tangible, pulsing force within you, capable of transforming both your life and the wider world.

With insights from ancient wisdom aligned with modern science, we delve into the real magic of energy work. Discover how to access, cultivate, and utilize this incredible energy to reshape your reality and unlock your true potential. Stay tuned to unearth how to turn the unseen into the seen and the impossible into the possible.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_ReGsz0RDg

[tellomon]

How To Get Rid Of Negative
Thoughts Using Stoicism

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by your emotions or lost in the turbulence of negative thoughts? Discover how the ancient wisdom of Stoicism can be your guiding light through dark times. Join us on a transformative journey as we explore seven profound lessons from Stoicism that go beyond theory to become a way of life.

With a heart full of courage and a mind unwavering in its resolve, these lessons will empower you to take control of your emotions and navigate life's storms. Amidst the chaos of life, welcome to "How to Get Rid of Negative Thoughts Using Stoicism," your guide to finding inner peace.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qq44ZTXYhM8

[tellomon]

What is the best way to
expose a narcissist in a
family court to show their
true colors?

The best way to expose a narcissist is to not react to them as they put on their court show. When its your turn to talk, make sure you have PHYSICAL evidence of what they have done. Remain calm at all times. Do not even look at the narcissist. Keep your face stone cold with no emotions. This will cause the narcissist to lose their mind.
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You can present facts and that is it. If you try too hard you will be made to look like you're the narc. Narc are very good at manipulating situations in their favor. Remember your daddy narc knows all your secrets
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Think DARVO.

D = Deny

A = Attack

R = Reverse

V = Victim and

O = Offender

People who are trying to cover up their bad actions all use this process. In court, in domestic abuse. Think if a child abuser who's defence is this 3 year old was coming on to me, flashing her pants, giving me the eye. It's her fault she made me do it.

You can only control your behaviour. Go in with solid clear facts. One sheet of paper for a financial issue. Get it in judges hand as soon as you go in.

Be quiet and give him the stage. Let him cry rant lie make false accusations. Look at the judge. Bring a notepad and draw pictures. Don t look at him. Act like he don't exist. Be calm. The more the little fella gets no reaction from you the worse their behaviour will become as they are very weak people and without someone to feed off they get crazy and scared real quick. Their behaviour gets nutty real quick. Sit back.

Be respectful polite and factual with the judge.

Any questions to you from judge refer back to your one page if proof.

Accept they are there to divert attention away from their actions so will make accusations. Cry. Play the victim. Respond to none of it. Poker face. No reaction.

They have no energy themselves and feed of your fear. Without it they collapse.

Leave them to judge. Stick to facts. No emotion.

They will be so happy they got the stage and the judge's attention.

I represent myself the last few years as it's become easy. Almost a day out to see a funny show. Remember: You're the audience of a 3 year old tantrum. Shut up. Don't defend yourself. Let him go to town. They are so out of touch with reality that they will show arrogance. Disrespect to you and the judge. If you're lucky, they will start crying, demanding, being nasty to you and glaring at you and the judge.

If you do all this and master your fear the judge usually turns around and tells them to grow up.

Then judge turned to me and asked how I would like him to pay.

They are sad little people really. There is nothing there.

Believe me when I say it took me a long time to reach this point. If you have survived living with a true narcissist you are a super strong person. If you have escaped them you're a Superhero. Remember that. You're the winner. They are babies.

https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-best-way-to-expose-a-narcissist-in-a-family-court-to-show-their-true-colors?topAns=190808101

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How do I beat a narcissist
in court?

100% use the element of surprise.

Here’s the most important rules prior to your court date:

Always feign IGNORANCE. You know nothing, have nothing, and suspect nothing to them.

Appear weak. This will encourage their arrogance and aggression. This will work to your advantage. They will show their hand and you can use it to show malice aforethought to the judge. Master the art of knowing when to show patience and when to show strength.
Tip them off with bad information and become irrationally upset as if you’ve been found out. They will run with what they believe to be your intel and you’ll nail them when you get to court with your real information.

Document EVERYTHING and make multiple copies. Tell several unrelated parties about the situation.

Go to several influential people that could support your plight and become the most inquisitive person and allow them to advise you and guide you. Make NO accusations or negative statements regarding the narc in question, allow the person to probe you and uncover your problem. It will automatically garner their support as people develop a vested interest in those we’ve helped solve a problem.

Make several reasonable documented attempts to resolve the issue with the narcissist and allow them to reject and/or stonewall you. This will serve as evidence of your good faith attempts to resolve the conflict.

Lose the battles to win the war. This is similar to the biblical concept of turn the other cheek. If they steal from you, give them something else they didn’t ask for. If they’ve lied on you, say nothing but kind words about them to others. Keep yourself above reproach.

Ask the judge for ONLY what would make you whole and empathize with the narcissists sob stories to the judge asking the judge to make concessions for them. Much like a zebra doesn’t change its stripes, so too does a narcissist. They will grow arrogant at your humility and graciousness. The judge will see their antagonistic attitude towards you and will deal accordingly.

Use QUESTIONS, not statements. Narcissists know how to deflect very well. By asking questions in a roundabout way, you’ll trap them in their own shitstorm indirectly. They won’t be prepared for this.

Ask for the things you DON’T actually want. This lowers their vigilance in fighting you on what you’re actually seeking and makes them ripe for ambush on your day in court when you quickly drop the issues you had no desire to even obtain that they fully prepared to fight you on. It will make them appear malicious which is what they are.

Remain CALM. No matter what, don’t show ANY emotion. Only show compassion and dignity. Kill them with kindness no matter what they say to you.

When faced with accusations/slander/lies/ never confirm nor deny. Ambiguity is your best friend. Answer questions with a question or a yes or no only.

Don’t go anywhere alone. Keep yourself in very visible dynamics with multiple people who are NOT aware of what you’re going through. These will be the best impartial eyewitnesses to defend you from any false allegations and accusations.

Best of luck, and remain positive. You’ll make it out ok.

https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-beat-a-narcissist-in-court-5?no_redirect=1

[tellomon]

Why are Americans so averse
to socialism?

Do you mean other than no one can point to a socialist system in history that has worked for people but only for those in charge?

The equation of socialism is so simple you’re left with people being so stupid and leaders so corrupt it’s an extremely poor commentary of humanity that it keeps falling for this rickety, house of cards system.

The most basic common denominator of a society is the individual. Individuals are intelligent and able, or they’re dumb and unable; degrees thereof.

Individuals make the next higher common denominator; the family unit.

Overwhelmingly, family members make the broader echelon: groups.

All groups make up the society.

To the degree individuals are smart and able, this will be a working, long-lasting society, and to the degree you have the opposite, it will be dysfunctional and won’t last long.

Socialism posits the group and society above the individual at the expense of the individual. The individual is a cog in the wheel. In practice, this lowers the individual to make them less intelligent, less able, less creative, less causative, etc., thus the family, group, and society.

If you concentrate on making the individual more important and not just a cog in the wheel, this automatically creates improved families, groups, and society, and not at the expense of society.

If individual rights don’t take sensible precedence, as is spelled out in the US Constitution, you end up with what has taken place throughout history, a dysfunctional society for people where the leaders are the only important individuals.

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“Socialism never took root in America because the poor see themselves not as an exploited proletariat but as temporarily embarrassed millionaires.”

--John Steinbeck

Seems to summarize things rather nicely.

[tellomon]

What are some key phrases
to use when gray rocking
a narcissist?

Gray rock is powerful, and helped me survive a dangerously abusive marriage.

“OK” was the answer I used most often, no matter what lie XGIC concocted. It’s a universal shrug of indifference. Going up north for a long weekend with an equally married, closeted gay ‘friend’? “OK”

Just respond as minimally as possible. Don’t engage, and don’t show emotion. Use the softest, dullest, most monotonous voice possible. This extends to EVERYTHING, including disagreements. Be null, dull, and answer in monosyllables when possible. Show maximum indifference.

You’ll get complaints. Say, “OK”. ‘Yes’ and ‘No’ are also good answers.

By using Gray Rock, you’ll deprive the abuser of narcissistic supply, and they’ll get worse as they whore for attention. Give the most minimal attention possible. Replace eye contact with minimal glances. Don’t engage in any unnecessary chatter, that’s just boundary testing.

Stick with it. It works.

The bonus is that gray rock will help you achieve a healthy emotional distance from them and their insanity. It take time, practice, and patience. The first time I rocked the gray, he was raging, and I thought my heart would beat out my chest.

Later, I’d look at his red faced raging self, and feel nothing but contempt. Gray Rock provides invaluable objectivity.

Rock the Gray always, all ways.

https://www.quora.com/What-are-some-key-phrases-to-use-when-gray-rocking-a-narcissist

[tellomon]

How did you destroy your narcissist?

You don't have to waste time destroying narcissists. Focus on healing after leaving narcissists. You have to live a peaceful, happy life.

Narcissists live an empty, miserable life; they want to destroy you because they can't be you. Narcissists till they live will keep looking for narcissistic supply, but you will leave a peaceful, happy life.

What you have, like empathy, remorse, feelings, understanding, trust, and loyalty, will always be there with you. Narcissists don't have any of these qualities, which is punishment for them. Till their last breath, they are going to live a horrible life, looking for people to make them feel good. In the end, the narcissist will be left alone; karma is inevitable.

Let karma take care of narcissists.

https://narsholethelonelygrifter.quora.com/How-did-you-destroy-your-narcissist?topAns=1477743722787671

[tellomon]

Has my ex-narc said awful things about me to his new supply?

This is standard practice. Anyone who falls foul of a narcissist is always depicted as being nuts. This applies to so called toxic siblings, bosses, jealous friends or bitter and twisted ex partners who the narcissist allegedly bent over backwards to please only for their generosity to be thrown back in theitr face. And if you believe that you will believe anything!

But they get off on playing the victim and do what they can to win a newcomers sympathy vote which in the early days normally comes up trumps. Generally speaking they are serial liars at the best of times so to be slagged off with tales of fiction is nothing new. You have just joined their long list of ex partners being painted in a less than flattering light, one step in front of their latest who will no doubt go the same way. With a couple of months under her belt she’ll soon be asking herself if things really add up.

Suggest read chapter ‘Recovering from a narcissist’ in book entitled:

‘Prepare to be tortured. The price you will pay for dating a narcissist’.

Available amazon books and audio.

https://narsholethelonelygrifter.quora.com/Has-my-ex-narc-said-awful-things-about-me-to-his-new-supply

[tellomon]

10/11/2016 6:06AM
Luka Luciano

Ron; fyi sherry has been talking shite about you saying your a freeloader living off her lazy bum drunk...she is spending night with kevin in vta says she made you sleep in her rv not in a relation ship any more planning to give you the boot. a conspiracy pretty low that is why i am writing hate cheaters liars backstabbers lame ass way to do things she made herself out as a victim not cool...

[tellomon]

Should you ever take a narcissist back?

Absolutely not.

Things will change from bad to worse in no time. When you patch up with a narcissist, they will make you feel special for some time, then they will go back to their abusive behavior.

Narcissists know they have treated you badly in relationships. When you patch up with narcissists, they start believing they haven't done anything wrong in a relationship; that's the reason they got another chance.

Narcissists will firmly believe you need them more than they need you, so narcissists will start looking down on you. Narcissists will start abusing you more than before. Get ready to see the worst phase of your life. Narcissists will vent out their anger and frustration because you left them or didn't let them into your life easily.

Giving another chance to narcissists is very dangerous. Narcissists will let the whole world know they have done nothing wrong in relationships; that's why you patched up with them. Narcissists will take advantage of taking people on their side; they will abuse you more.

Never patch up with narcissists.

https://hiddenthedarktruthaboutcovertnarcissism.quora.com/Should-you-ever-take-a-narcissist-back?topAns=1477743746241811

[tellomon]

[tellomon]

How can people make a narcissist feel guilty about their wrongdoings?

You can't make narcissists feel guilty. Narcissists don't think they have done anything wrong in a relationship. Narcissists have all sorts of reasons to blame you to avoid accountability and responsibility.

If you point out the mistakes of narcissists, then they blame you for provoking them. If you catch them doing something wrong, they will blame circumstances, you, or other people. Narcissists will always have someone to blame.

If narcissists had the capacity to feel guilty, then they would have changed their behavior; you wouldn't have called them narcissistic.

https://murkywatersnarcissist.quora.com/How-can-people-make-a-narcissist-feel-guilty-about-their-wrongdoings?topAns=1477743755440700

[tellomon]

What happens when you expose
a narcissist to the whole world
and expose their fake image?

Narcissists will try their best to defend themselves. Narcissists will blame you or circumstances; they are never going to admit they have done anything wrong. Narcissists will create false stories to cover up their wrongdoing. Narcissists will also take the help of flying monkeys to be on the safer side.

Narcissists experience shame after being exposed. For narcissists, it's very hard to cope with shame. Some narcissists may shed tears to show they are the victim; everything is planned against them.

Some narcissists can be very vindictive. Make sure who you expose. Narcissists will teach you a lesson for exposing them. Narcissists can keep grudges forever. There are some narcissists who will vanish after being exposed.

Don't waste your time exposing narcissists; you never know what type of narcissists you are dealing with. Focus on moving on and healing after leaving narcissists.

Every narcissist will react in different way.
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LMAO. If you are dealing with a narcissist, you will regret it. People don't believe you. They don't understand. They don't care. They don't like feeling stupid, so will not change their minds. And your own efforts will backfire on you in a bad way. They will ruin your life. You have no idea how dark and vindictive and sneaky they are.
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It won't make any difference, apart from terrible stuff like their rage and revenge. They’ll make sure you leave the job with false accusations and you’ll be literally crying with despair at the way it all ends up on you. This will make you look unhinged, because you will be.

There's a video of someone who rings someone's doorbell and when they open the door and see an open tin of paint being chucked at them, immediately they slam the door shut. The paint hits the door and lands all over the chucker.

Nobody cares, nobody’s interested. The narc's specialty is deflecting anything chucked at them. Narcissism IS the shield.

https://fphlhibflhdupulk.quora.com/What-happens-when-you-expose-a-narcissist-to-the-whole-world-and-expose-their-fake-image?topAns=1477743754515709

[tellomon]

Do narcissists like to ignore messages
from their partners?

Absolutely yes. A narcissist ignores messages to gain power, control, and authority over you. Narcissists ignore messages to put themselves in control and make the person on the other end feel that they are wrong.

Narcissists tend to ignore messages that help them avoid compromising with others. Narcissists ignore messages to look very busy. This is the best way for narcissists to look more valuable and in demand.

Narcissists ignore messages to make you chase them; this gives narcissistic supply to narcissists.

Narcissists ignore messages to show they have other options. If you don't behave as they want, then they can give you the same treatment in the future.

Narcissists know what messages you have sent; they just don't open them.

https://narcissistlies.quora.com/Do-narcissists-like-to-ignore-messages-from-their-partners?topAns=1477743751538956

[tellomon]

[tellomon]

The Difficult Truth Chosen Ones
Must Face

Dive deep into the transformative journey of personal evolution and the pursuit of 5D consciousness with Obsidian. In this immersive video, we explore the profound realization that despite our deepest desires, we cannot change others, especially those we hold dear. Embrace the art of letting go and the power of focusing on one's own spiritual path.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0PpKkZnrUe8

[tellomon]

Scripture, Science and UFOs

In part two of this series, Pastor Jack discusses the link between recent reports of unidentified aerial phenomena and advances in artificial intelligence, connecting them to Biblical prophecies of deception in the last days. Jesus' teachings warn us of the need to stay grounded in scripture to guard against intensifying deceptions as His return nears.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NoTFH_C9jQw

@Roger-PIA56
7 months ago
There needs to be a huge push for the kind of preaching and teaching that Pastor Jack does. We only came across him a few months ago and have a renewed faith and world view, from all his teaching. A tell-it-like-it is, Bible based truth, common sense preaching. He's bold, he speaks the truth and we all know it. We can all feel that in our soul. Very few, I mean very, very few pastors have the boldness and courage in today's "woke" society to speak Biblical truth. May God continue to bless Pastor Jack Hibbs, his ministry, his family, his health and his mission.

[tellomon]

Can you take a stand
against a narcissist?

YES.

You take a stand by leaving them tf alone.

Narcissists don’t need much to feel that you're a felafeling clown.

All they need is for you to remain in their life.

No matter which way.

This could be seeing them once a month just to sit quietly next to them.

Narcissists don't understand anything but for your absence.

Absence is their language.

Nothing else.

No words nor actions will be understood.

Speak absence.

Leave the damn narcissist.

https://narsholethelonelygrifter.quora.com/Can-you-take-a-stand-against-a-narcissist?topAns=1477743704695900

[tellomon]

THE UNHOLY BRIDE OF SATAN
Stay Away From Women Like This

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hdWUbRu4DIY