What is a narc letter?
I wrote a thank you letter to my narc. It provided closure when I received none. See below:
Thank you for letting me be free of further hurt and the pain of carrying around your dirty secrets. Thank you for showing me what love isn’t, so I can learn what love really is. Thank you for cheating on me every day for 23 yrs, so I can see what a real loving partner who genuinely loves me will NOT do. Thank you for being the big liar and never loving me because now someone else can. Thank you for showing me years of loneliness and tears because it’s shown me half a lifetime of what I do not want to find again. Thank you for showing me what it feels like to mean nothing to someone.
Because now I can mean everything to someone else who knows what my value is. Thank you for all the disrespect you’ve shown me throughout our marriage and the lack of care you’ve shown to me when I needed you most. I have learned how real men treat women who mean something to them and it’s shown me that I was never truly loved by you at all. I was only USED by you until I had almost nothing left of me to give. You killed my hopes, my dreams, my spirit, my self-esteem and self-worth. Thank you for that because without it, I would probably still be married to you and getting progressively sicker and wanting to end my life. Thank you for showing me that there is happiness out there and you weren’t MY happiness like I thought you were. You were the devil in disguise. I will never let another man hurt me as much as you have. So thank you for being the worst mistake of my life because it will allow me to find the greatest love of my life. Thank you.
Debra Gonzales White
How sad, this letter is how I am feeling right now!! I’m separated and trying to rebuild my self esteem after being destroyed by my spouse. 😞
Ron Tello Culley
What's the Score?
Ron Tello Culley
In school, we did not get away with anything. We WERE EVERYTHING. Try finding that now....
Debra Gonzales White
Ron Tello Culley you’re sweet and I have no doubt you’re a great hugger, but I’m just not available to anyone right now. But I value your honesty and your courage to say what you want. There’s a lucky woman out there for you 💕
Ron Tello Culley
Gee, I'm thinking I am your lucky man.
What a buzz kill. Love ya, see ya. I wanna be with ya.
We were smarter in 6th Grade than we are now, but you know....
Ron Tello Culley
"Great Hugger". I made money doing that Carnival Act.
Ron Tello Culley
Watch this bold act: Debbie, I wanna touch you in places where no man has gone before. (HINT: Above the neck). Good?
Ron Tello Culley
Ah! El Monte....
Ron Tello Culley
As a side note: I am over the infatuations with Patti Johnson, Debbie Laux and...that's it. Now, Diane Bell...she was one of us guys in those days. At 8 years old, she played piano like Mozart. The Talent, the energy...the love of life...EPIC! I will always remember these things.
Hi Patti!
Ron Tello Culley
This is NOT about the Hokey Pokey. This is about El Monte and the suffering we endured to become the excellent peeps we have become. We are mothers and drummers.
Ron Tello Culley
I'm the drummer, ok?