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« Reply #24050 on: September 20, 2022, 03:23:54 PM »
I~agree with Brum6y!

There's got to be more to life than this...


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« Reply #24051 on: September 20, 2022, 03:26:28 PM »
It's not like war, yet....
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« Reply #24052 on: September 20, 2022, 04:00:50 PM »
Ron Tello Culley
Right! Your problems are BIGGER than mine?!!!

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Most of you will NEVER know the miracle of a Snare Drum.

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It's like...you bang on it, or kill your parents....

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« Reply #24053 on: September 20, 2022, 04:10:16 PM »
Ron Tello Culley
Most of you will NEVER know the miracle of a Snare Drum.

Steven Michael King
Ron Tello Culley nor the differences in the classic Pearl vs Ludwig varieties....

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Wood vs metal. You really wanna go there?

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It's like...you bang on it, or kill your parents....

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Drums are more PRIMITIVE than Pop Culture.

Look it up! What came first? The Drum or Pizza?
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« Reply #24054 on: September 21, 2022, 12:49:25 PM »
Whatever. It's not real anyways.... 1721481 Views
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« Reply #24055 on: September 21, 2022, 06:10:39 PM »
What's new?
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« Reply #24057 on: September 22, 2022, 03:20:13 PM »
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« Reply #24058 on: September 22, 2022, 07:49:35 PM »
NO!

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« Reply #24059 on: September 22, 2022, 08:12:26 PM »
I'm talking to ppl whom I think may be important.

These ppl are talking to me first, thinking I'm important.

Talk Important.

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« Reply #24060 on: September 22, 2022, 08:19:28 PM »
The Internet is the Perfect Place to UPLIFT geniuses

and smash idiots.

Is that so wrong?

I got spammed once.

Hit DELETE.

Read in the papers soon after that the B@zturd
got killed in a horrible PayPal accident.
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« Reply #24061 on: September 22, 2022, 08:36:59 PM »

In approx. 2009 when I originally posted this, my sister in law, a Westgate, jumped all over my case about this, claiming she works with retards and bla bla.... She got killed online when 1000 of my facebook friends descended on her ignorant mug and left ashes in their wake.

Family is not so great when they think say and do against you.

I run SOLO on this Land.

BTW: My eBay friend in Canada made this. Long ago.
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« Reply #24062 on: September 22, 2022, 08:46:14 PM »
F U Westgate!

And selected Culley. (Women and Children)
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« Reply #24063 on: September 23, 2022, 05:00:35 AM »
How do narcissists destroy their own relationships?

Relationships are spots where they can assert dominance and express their compulsion to take revenge. Shifting blame explains how they face failures. So, a relationship is little more than a time and place to fool others and repay them for their own personal suffering and lack of love long ago and what happens again tomorrow.

Relationships maximize their success in life through our constant attempt to rescue them from themselves. Watching innocent people volunteer for continued abuse is both gratifying servitude (slavery) and eventually turns into disgust. The challenge is no longer satisfying once disgust or boredom sets in. So, being disgusted by the foolish lover justifies the torture, abuse, and destruction of the relationship, assets, and person who used to charm them convincingly.

The shelf life of the relationship times out with the emergence of their feelings of disgust. They can’t believe you love them when you tolerate their intentional abuse and forgive their cheating and lying. So, they see the behavior of loving someone so broken as they are as pathetic. It’s time to move on again and find someone new who can give more for longer and then accept their fate more gracefully.

Very twisted and self-defeating. We waste our time hoping for anything better from these miserable and broken souls.

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« Reply #24064 on: September 25, 2022, 03:05:31 PM »
Meanwhile, in the world of smee....
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« Reply #24065 on: September 25, 2022, 05:58:36 PM »
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« Reply #24066 on: September 26, 2022, 12:06:42 PM »
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« Reply #24067 on: September 26, 2022, 02:03:35 PM »
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« Reply #24068 on: September 27, 2022, 04:12:07 AM »
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« Reply #24069 on: September 27, 2022, 06:33:40 AM »
Why are narcissists so jealous and angry?

When we are small, we are the center of our parents universe.

When we cry, there is a response - we are fed, changed, attended to. As we grow older, this care and attention tapers off - naturally as we grow more able we are expected to be more responsible for our own wellbeing and that of others, and rely on other people less.

Well, the narcissist aint havin it.

They want the care and attention given to the infant to continue. The fact that it does not fills the narcissist with impotent fury.

Someone has to pay for this.

After exhausting all other alternatives, the narcissist discovers that by putting on a friendly facade they are able to persuade certain others to acquiesce to their wishes. They seek out those with a nurturing, parental feel to them. Giving such a person what they want (which is to be given the impression of being loved) makes them love you, and in return they will do what you want. The narcissist is back once more in their marvelous infancy.

However, soon this begins to dry up as people tire of looking after a big baby. They expect at least something in return. The narcissist is reminded once more of reality, of the fact that the stupid world does not exist to cater to their each and every need. The rage returns, the fury, but now, the narcissist has a conduit for it, a vessel to fill, a latrine to dump in. All that rage has a soft squshy target and the narcissist unleashes, hitting their target with a satisfying smack.

The rage is baby rage at not getting what they want, which is for reality to bend to their will.

The jealousy comes from the happiness they see in the eyes of others. Why should others be happy? The narcissist isn't. The world should revolve around their happiness and their happiness only, just like it used to. It didn't matter how tired their mother was, when they cried, she got up and attended to them. Nobody else mattered. She made the narcissist happy. Now others are happy and the narcissist is not.

This is wrong. The world must be about them and their happiness. Everyone, everything should stop and ensure the narcissist is alright. The universe must take care of the narcissist, not these other stupid people! They shouldn't be happy, the narcissist should be happy!

And they're not!

Waaaah!

Waaaaaaaaaah!

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

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« Reply #24070 on: September 28, 2022, 01:34:07 PM »
Ahhhh ... sounds likes Pegs and those that Molly Coddled her

All came glaringly obvious to them in the long run

Does it mean they were giving the benefit of the doubt (although there really was no doubt)
or does it mean slow learners ???

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« Reply #24071 on: September 29, 2022, 06:05:11 AM »
:tello: "See? I told you smee can be smart."
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« Reply #24072 on: September 29, 2022, 08:16:39 AM »
What Is a Slow Learner?

Slow learner is a term that is sometimes used for low-ability students, with an IQ between 70 and 85. These individuals make up approximately 14.1% of the population, larger than the group of children with learning disabilities, intellectual disabilities, Droolers and autism combined.

Yet, for this extremely large and vitally important population, research is scarce and getting harder to find every year. Slow learners are rarely eligible for special education programs or community services, even though they frequently do not have the skills to be successful in school or general society. There seems to be few large-scale innovative educational or mental health programs for this group of students.


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« Reply #24073 on: September 29, 2022, 10:59:38 AM »
How do narcissists react to problems in a relationship?

If something goes wrong in a relationship, it's often the narcissist who is quick to react and can become quite defensive. This is because they tend to see any problem as a personal attack on them. They may try to blame their partner or lash out in anger, which can escalate the situation quickly. In many cases, the narcissist will try to control and manipulate the situation so that they come out looking like the victim. This can be extremely frustrating for their partner, who may feel like they're always walking on eggshells around the narcissist. It's important to remember that if you're in a relationship with a narcissist, you need to take care of yourself first and foremost.
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Deny. Blame. Justify. Etc.

Nothing is ever their fault, and always someone else’s. Rinse and Repeat. All entirely predictable, and boring.
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They react by blaming whatever the problem is on you or someone else. Narcissists don’t create or make problems in their minds and they’ll definitely never own up or take responsibility no matter what. I don’t care how black or white the situation is, with undeniable evidence under their noses. They’re NEVER at fault, but it’s very likely you ALWAYS WILL BE.
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If there are problems, they’re your problems and your problems only. You are crazy, you are a crybaby, you are causing them to behave a certain way. You are forcing them to mistreat you because you are the problem. There’s no talking about a problem, either. They move on without thinking about the utter havoc they are wreaking on your life and your sense of self worth. Unfortunately you need to learn this the hard way if you are dealing with a narcissist. Normal people are like hey, this is bothering me, let’s talk it out. Normal people assume that they can resolve problems with logic and communication. Narcissists are like whoa, why are you so aggressive, you are nagging me and I can’t stand you. How dare you try to communicate your feelings. They want to leave the past in the past without ever resolving anything. So, they live regret-free, guilt-free while you go absolutely mad with the injustice of it all.
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Narcissists do not have “relationship problems” because they do not have relationships. Everything is about them. They experience everything alone on their own island. Every problem that THEY are having (there is no “we”) is someone else’s fault. Probably yours.

Let’s say you’re having money problems together. To the narcissist, HE (or she) is having money problems and YOU are supposed to do something about it. It’s probably YOUR fault that HE is having this problem. There is no “we are having a problem”.

This is why couples therapy doesn’t work. Couples therapy is meant to solve relationship problems. But you don’t have a relationship with a narcissist. Abuse is not a relationship problem. It’s just abuse. Any other problem you’re having is just something that YOU (or someone else) is doing wrong.
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Simple really. They either blame everything lock, stock & two smoking barrels on partner or else just stick head in sand and ignore. Actually there’s a third option which usually proves quite successful and that’s to start looking around for someone new. Narcissists want fun and excitement a la the good old days at the start, the boring stuff, especially long drawn out conversations about give and take or compromise they find tedious and beneath them. That kind of thing is for little people, narcissists see themselves as being bigger than that.

So nothings ever their fault. How could it be? When you’ve been raised to believe you were Gods gift to humanity why would you think anything could be your fault. Sure they know they have their foibles but the arrogance overrides that aspect considerably. The head in the sand part means they either don’t want to know or cannot be bothered. So if partner persists in standing their ground, only one thing for it and find someone more compliant. Hell its the least they deserve right??

Suggest read chapters ‘Narcissists and control’ and ‘The Devaluation phase’ in book entitled:
‘Prepare to be tortured. The price you will pay for dating a narcissist’.
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Every time you talk about your feelings or the issues in the relationship with a narcissist, the conversation turns into are argument,blaming or otherwise unhelpful ways that tigger a defensive response in you. Then your response is made the issue while they escape with all their abuse and the real problem remains unsolved.
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They are your typical Con Artists who received:Emotional Neglect,Childhood Trauma,Emotional Abuse from their parents their whole life.
They daily feel internal insecurities,internal conflict,they feel emptiness,they have the void,they see the black hole,they feel worthless no matter what they do etc.
The whole childhood abuse caused them lack of Empathy because they were never loved,respected,valued,appreciated from their parents to begin with.
They are unable to love anyone including themselves,they hate themselves so that answers all of your question.If someone constantly hates himself/herself so much he will never be able to love someone else.And if you love him/her you are basically a loser because no one can love them because they feel like they always failed in life,that’s their typical mentality.
To ease their internal insecurities they manipulate the whole people around them by a fake persona basically faking everything about themselves and presenting to the public a perfect image of a caring,lovely,charming character.
While they manipulate the crowd they gather up Admiration,Attention,Adulation,Validation basically to regulate their self esteem which is a temporary fix.
No matter what they are your typical wounded child who never grew up emotionally,their emotional level is stuck at their childhood trauma period with one word the period of abuse.
With all being said no matter how good the source of supply is they will sooner or later get bored since they possess a really low boredom tolerance level.
They tend to hit on victims that possess high levels of Empathy or Empaths,because they are vulnerable and they are easy to be charmed and manipulated.Before the LB-DV-DI process they will start to test the new victim causing drama out of the blue,since drama bring excitement and everything that’s new is exciting.They will cause drama out of the blue and see with how much they are able to walk away,if you leave them walk away with everything that gives them the green light that you possess high levels of empathy and you are a long term source of supply however if you resist their attempts they will discard you early on and move to the next source of supply.They are your typical druggies searching for Fuel aka their fix.If you passed their whole tests the cycle starts.
They follow a predictable relationship pattern of LB-DV-DI.
LB-rising the victim on the pedestal making him her feel special,telling them all the stuff they need to her while they mirror the victim aka shape shifting to the victims character traits or copying the victim,with one word making the victim fall in love with themselves.This is the closest the NPD will ever get to feel love,Idealization aka Love Bombing is a form of infatuation or obsession with their possession in this case the victim,they are obssessed with their new doll or object they want that so bad.
A NPD enters the relationship to fill his/er void pulling all the weight to the shoulders of the victim with one word.They seek for the impossible basically wanting the other people to fix them or fill their emptiness. No matter what others do they will never be able to fill that emptiness because the problem is them not the other people around.After a period of time the void will be back in and they will start to think as maybe the new victim was not special after all since the void is still there,basically the boredom starts to kick in and they will start to Devalue,once the Devalue starts there is no turning back.
Devalue-Basically it can happen gradually or suddenly when they get bored or called on their actions,once they start to devalue they start to groom new sources of supplies switching all their energy and time to someone else since it takes them a lot to manipulate new people,it’s a whole new different challenge especially the people that are careful with sharing their empathy.They will pull back and suddenly switch all the attention from you to someone else.The victim will be left in vain not knowing what happened,what did they do,how it happened etc.
The victim starts to search for answers they will totally or completely ignore the victims attempts further more manipulating the victim with methods like:
Gaslighting-Basically when the victim calls them on their actions they will totally deny their actions taking no responsibility and telling the victim that they are going crazy and they never did tho’s actions:They would slap you today and tell you tomorrow they never did it the victim will basically apologize for the things that they never did.
Why is it easy to Gaslighten?Because they have tested you early on threatening you that they are going to leave with one word and you stood by their side,you showed them in one way or another that you won’t leave easy no matter what and that you are going to keep fighting for that person. So once they start to gaslighten they won’t have a problem with it because no matter what they do you will just suck it up and continue to stay by their side and you will fight for them even if it means losing your whole dignity to them.With one word they are using your vulnerabilities as a weakness and trying to turn you into Lunacy with their games and enjoying it to the fullest.Once the devalue starts to kick is you have been already replaced they never discard they will shelf you,being replaced means that the new victim is feeding them Positive Fuel and Excitement while you are the boring guy or the side kick,they won’t ignore you completely they will give you as little as possible to hang in there since you will start to search for answers and you will feed them Fuel with any Positive/Negative reaction they will feel important.
Silent Treatments-They like to combine gaslightening with silent treatments with one word.Once they are called on their actions they will basically neutralize your attempts giving you the prolonged silent treatments since they already know that you are aware of whats going on.With this they are giving you a simple message of’’My dear object if you dare to stand up for yourself i will give you my silence and withhold everything that feel’t good on the love bombing phase including:Love,care,affection,attention,value,respect,appreciation etc.Their silence will increase the more the victim calls them on their actions and the more they start to search for answers.The more the victim craves for a closure the less that they are going to give it to them and the more the victim starts to crave for answers the less they are going to give that to the victim.They will never give you a closure or answers because you are an object and you don’t deserve them and they know deep down inside that if they confuse you,you will with one word search more for answers and you will feed them more Fuel and they will finally feel important belittling you,that shows how insecure tho’s individuals are.
Projection-Another manipulation technique they will basically project their whole insecurities to you telling you that you are overthinking etc and you are going lunacy.You will end up apologizing profusely for calling them on their actions.
Stone Wall-It’s a technique used by Sociopaths also the NPDS like to use it a lot with one word once they get asked for a specific question for ex:Do you still feel what you feel’t before?Do you have feelings,what happened what changed?They will immediately change the topic or switch the topic to something else leaving you even more confused you will never get answers.
Emotional Withholds-They will withhold emotionally every time they get called on their actions basically to punish you while you are craving for their attention,affection,love,care etc.
It took me a really long time to write this so if it helped you please leave a positive feedback by leaving an upvote and a positive comment it will mean a lot-PEACE,LOVE AND HAPPINESS-AXL SALVATOR.
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This question is asked as if narcs are normal, and will have normal reactions to problems. That is not the way it works. Narcs don’t have any problems, their lives , and relationships , are perfec- at lleast that is what they are telling the outside world. In reality they are working through the narc pattern- idealise, devalue, discard. If you are mentoning problems, you are probably in the devalue phase, where they are giving you a very hard time and you are unhappy. I hate to tell you, this will continue for a while. He is looking around for a replacement for you, and as soon as he manages this you will be discarded. THAT is how they cope. The new supply will go through exactly the same pattern, until she too is discarded- and so on, till the narc runs out of options. Please learn about narcissism, you will see the pattern, and can work out how to deal with it. Narcs are unpleasant people, self-obsessed and simply not nice to be around. They damage people. So I am on a campaign to educate everyone about narcissism, and the dangers thereof. My little answers can only provide a snapshot, in relation to a tiny aspect of narcissism, and it is a big subject, so you need to study it to understand it properly. This will pay enormous dividends. You will be able to better deal with any narcs you are stuck with, like relatives, and will be able to see what is going to happen if you have the misfortune to be in a relationship with one, so I am recommending everyone learns about it by reading. And you will be able to spot one , and take evasive action. Everyone normal should become an expert on narcissism. This is surprisingly easy, because they always act the same, all the time, and they do the same things to people over and over again. There is a narc pattern. So one good book will do it. The best book I ever found on narcissism generally is Prepare to be Tortured- the price you will pay for dating a narcissist. AB Jamieson, Amazon. This is why I always recommend it. It covers all the layman needs to know about narcissism, and is written in a clear, concise, colloquial way, without psychobabble, which is all too common in books of this nature. Someone asked me if I get a kickback from sales. I wish. No, I don´t, I simply want everyone to know about narcissism, and this is like a layman´s guide, the best I have found. If I find a better one, I will recommend that. It goes through the pattern, which is really helpful if you want to know what is ahead of you and how the whole thing will play out. It starts off with relationships but then moves on to chapters on narcs with money, narcs and control, narcs as friends and colleagues etc. It is the book of my life, and the life of anyone involved with any type of narcissistic abuse, and is very helpful to recovery. It also, very usefully, has a list of traits- red flags, so you can identify them, stay away from them, and live a narc-free life. You will never regret it.



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« Reply #24074 on: September 29, 2022, 11:05:42 AM »
How does a narcissist treat you on your birthday?


Birthdays are the smoking gun to narcissist detection.

Narcissists cannot effing stand you on your birthday.

They reveal their true emotional intelligence: toddlers.

They are infuriated that someone else was ever born! They are enraged and jealous of you getting attention!

THEY NEED TO RUIN IT.

THEY NEED THE ATTENTION.

THEY DESERVE ALLLLLL THE PRESENTS.

IT ISN’T FAIR! Moooooommmmmmmmmy! 😩

From the age of a toddler until she was 12, my little sister woke up on my birthday and pitched a screaming fit.

She cried and screamed all day.

Everyone in the family knew to bring her gifts on my birthday, even though I didn’t get gifts on hers. They just needed to make the screaming stop…if only for a moment.

She’d grab my gifts and immediately tear into them, try to break them. It was normal as a toddler: she was a vicious little kid. But as she got older, it was like, WTF?!

Then she got more covert about ruining birthdays.

Here’s a list of things she, and other narcissists I knew, did on my birthdays:

Gave the same generic gift every year: candles and soap
Gave a lovely gift but gave it 2 months late—so sorry I forgot!
Showed up late to my party in a mood having had a horrible traffic experience that they just must talk about to every guest
Gave a gift of a trash can filled with shite like toothpaste and razors
Took me out to dinner but made me walk and walk and walk until I was sweating and exhausted and starving because they just couldn’t decide where they wanted to eat
Announced a pregnancy or important life event during the bday celebration
Didn’t get me a gotdamn thing, not even a card, but sent an email: “happy birthday.” Couldn’t even be bothered to hit an exclamation point or emoji (Hi dad and sis 👋)
Told me that the age I’m at now was the worst age of their life and what awful things awaited me
Sent an email saying I was worthless and hateful and she bears the scars for my worthless birth (Hi mom 👋)
Said they got asked to work a double but were actually out cheating on me
As a bonus, these gremlins will even ruin their own birthdays if the birthday makes supply happy.

I got my sister an expensive, beautiful hookah because she loved to do that with friends. Her friends were having a blast with it…she left it at my house and called it a dumb gift.
A friend’s wife planned him a huge party. Everyone was very excited. He canceled it because he said there would be too many children there. Then he pouted that no one would do anything for his birthday.
After growing up with narcissists and trauma bonding my whole life, I now spend every birthday entirely alone. It’s the only chance I have at having a happy one.

It pleases them too: they love knowing you’re alone on your birthday. They hate watching you be loved and celebrated. You don’t deserve it.


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Re: The Tello Files. (All things strange, witnessed, verifyable and/or credible (?)
« Reply #24076 on: September 30, 2022, 10:13:16 AM »
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A good actor can do it!
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Merchants owe me a favor.

Advertising is not cheap.

Yes, it IS!
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« Reply #24079 on: September 30, 2022, 03:26:57 PM »
Northern Bangers posted a video to playlist TV and Documentaries.

ITV's World of Sport showed Wimbledon's van banger racing during the early 1980s. Here's a figure of 8 race from 1983 which sees 170 Les Coleman pip 264 Brian Black to the win by a nose before ending up embedded in a post

https://www.facebook.com/northernbangers/videos/393418692805042


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Sandra Brooks
Farm Aid 2022 Performance To Perfection at the age 89. Willie Nelson is releasing his 95th album. Get off you GDA and start playing those drums and Karokee.

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I want to score a dime bag of weed. Why is it difficult?

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Yeah, and if I can move into your house, I'll bring some drums with me. Deal?

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I have Food Stamps and I'm Potty Trained!!!

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THAT'S RIGHT FOLKS!
HERE ON THE TELLO FILES...ANYTHING GOES!


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Don't get me wrong...

I LOVE Tessa.

It's just that I don't respect her Authoritay.
 
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Did you know.....

Tessa NEVER emails me first!

Something about that chip on her shoulder.

It's not THAT heavy.

I think she's a Diva.


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Why do narcissistic people punish the people who love them and treat them so good?

Originally Answered: If a narcissist wants to be loved so bad, why do they manipulate and abuse the person who loves them and ultimately makes them resent the narcissist?
Great question! I’ll tell u why. They weren’t loved as children - at least not the way a child should be loved. They felt abandoned.

Then u come along.

A beautiful soul that loves unconditionally and they want to mirror you. Oh, they want to mirror you so bad! They try really hard but in the end they come to resent you:

being kinder than them
being smarter than them
being better looking than them
being more successful than them
Being a generous soul
it’s an impossible task to mirror attributes that are part of who we are. U can’t just fake all that, no matter how hard u try. Then they begin to resent you for all of that! So they go on the attack to bring u down to their level to feel better about themselves. Then, when they completely destroy u and u are ready to walk - they love bomb u back because they can’t live without u.

Then the cycle begins again. Rinse and repeat.

you need to understand that as much as they crave love - they are incapable - yes INCAPABLE of receiving of giving true love.

Walk away whilst u still have a chance. Leave it too long and they will either kill u or u will kill yourself.

My ‘aha’ moment was when I came to the realisation that I had to ‘give my life’ or ‘save my life’. It was a pretty much a neck and neck decision - but some semblance of the strong woman that I am deep down inside stopped me right at the last second before I took an overdose of sleeping pills.

don’t let yourself get there!!!


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Do narcissists treat everyone in their life poorly, or pick and choose their victims?


You are confusing Narcissism in general with poor treatment, let me make some things clear for you.

They don’t go around treating people poorly or searching or picking victims , in general they are silent and closed to themselves since they lack self esteem especially the covert ones, they act normal, they are caring, sensitive and fun to be around in general, most likely they are deep and act deep, that’s what made you fall in love with them on the first place, them acting and feeling while they Idealize deep-caring-sensitive and unique, they act like that if you meet one, that’s why many of us fail to spot them on early on.

Secondly the Idealization is a unconscious process that happens without their will, meaning that they don’t go around searching for people to idealize or searching for victims or they don’t do it consciously meaning that they don’t plan anything that they are doing, you make it seem like they are working on CIA secret agency where everything is planned. Their pattern is the same, they even themselves don’t believe that they would have Devalued their most favorite toy or object it just happens from the boredom, that’s who they are and that’s how they live, if we pay close attention we would have spotted their behavioral pattern early on, but we tended to refuse the red flags, since it was a new experience for most of us, meaning that we have to learn our lesson, stop looking at them as demonic creatures and we need to grow up as human beings learning to spot on the early red flags and knowing the fact that we played an important role on our own abuse also, since we keep’t sticking to their side, trying to help them and fix them so they can love us, we were searching for love all vulnerable all over the place, allowing people to cross our boundaries, having no respect, love , care, appreciation for ourselves and lacking the ability to love ourselves the way we are, being appreciative for the things that we possess, we were lacking the ability to feel good on our own skin, enjoy our own company and most importantly to find our inner happiness, always depending into people, allowing people to dictate our happiness, searching for our own inner happiness in other people and allowing people to dictate how we feel about ourselves.

Thirdly the Narcissist starts to Idealize when the chance is presented which they can’t control, meaning when the new victim/toy/object/person starts to make them feel good about themselves, providing their ego a stroke and being Empathic, the victim is new/exciting and they get high on the victims new fresh Fuel, meaning that they don’t have control on it, it just happens. They get a tunnel vision with everyone new, but keep in mind there is a big difference between Love and Idealization, learn the essence and the difference of Love and Idealization and you will learn everything about them. There is a difference between Love(Something everlasting, that starts slow and progressess with time, which requires Empathy, Trust, Care, Appreciation, Value)and Idealization(A form of obsession or infatuation which starts in intense then as time passess by it decreases to null), meaning that the Narcissist is incapable of loving you however they love the way that you make them feel about themselves, they never loved you, they loved the feelings you used to provide them about themselves, that’s Idealization, that’s why they view people as extensions of their character or self.

Lastly back to your question, about the poor treatment, they will start to poorly treat you when they get bored and you already get replaced by someone else, since they idealized you for a short period of time, they operate from a childish emotional level and lack empathy, so they will quickly get bored out of everything, they operate by excitement, like adrenaline junkies not genuine feelings, you make them feel good about themselves?Fine they will love you, since you are taking their insecurities off after a period of time the excitement fades and they start to Devalue, it’s inevitable no matter how good you were or how hard you tried. When you get Devalued everything is officially over that’s why they poorly treat you, because they move forward quickly, when they start to withdraw their attention/affection you start to react as a normal individual asking questions, blaming yourself and seeking for a closure or answers, that will threaten their fake persona and identity and they will then start to manipulate, since you are refusing to leave and pressuring them threatening their fake persona/mask/facade, that’s pretty much it what happens, they will never beg you to leave neither they would care less if you stay, it’s a decision that you should take or make about yourself, if you chose to stay they will manipulate to protect their fake persona because you will keep asking for their attention and affection constantly, if you chose to leave they would care less, since you have been already replaced by someone else, the more you beg or plead for answers the less that they are going to give them to you, because there are no answers to begin with to your questions, even they have no idea what is going on, they just simply got bored, they just idealized you for a short period of time now they are bored, that’s who they are and that’s how they operate, the more you beg/plead or cling the more Fuel you will feed them with your positive/negative reactions and the more important they are going to feel.

Now the golden question is do they Devalue consciously? Nope, it just happens, that’s what they do, that’s the pattern that they follow their entire lifetime? If you asked the immature kid if he would have believed that he would have thrown away his favorite toy what would have been the kids answer?Nope, even the kid to this date never believe that he has thrown away his favorite toy, it just happened nothing beats his boredom with that emotional level.

A short story to enlighten your thoughts: A kid wants a dog so badly and his mom finally buys his favorite pet, he promises his mom that he will take care of the pet no matter what and he does a few first months, after that the boredom starts to kick in he starts to not feed the dog properly and not take care of the dog, he has no idea what is happening he is just bored, would he have believed the moment that he wanted the dog that he is going to quickly get bored of the dog and starve the dog to death?Absolutely not, after that the mom steps in and starts to take care of the dog since she is the mature person, would the mom have blamed the kid?Absolutely not, because she knows that the kid speaks with his excitement and his thoughts and feelings change like the wind in that early emotional level when their empathy is under developed, that’s your typical Narcissist a grown up with body and mindset a wounded child with their emotional level. If someone went around telling the kids mom that the kid is cruel, he is starving the dog, the mom would have laughed and answered them with a quote’’He is just a kid, how is he supposed to take responsibility and take care of a big responsibility with that emotional level’’Exactly, this answers everything that you need to know, the narcissist is a kid, he takes no responsibility for their actions, with their childish emotional level and he bails away when the time has come to take serious responsibility, you can’t ask a kid to grow up from 4 yo to 20 yo, you will scare the kid to death and he is eventually going to bail away, that’s the difference between you the mature person who loves and understands the meaning of empathy and love and the Narcissist who just plainly idealizes for a short period of time.

Every each one of us need to feel thankful that this experience happened, you might have lost an illusion that has hurt you deep down inside but you learned a life lesson that you will never forget in 100 years, a life lesson that you would have never learned in 100 years if it never happened, a life lesson that matured you early on in life, rather then looking at things with a negative attitude we need to start searching for all the positive things that we can find within the negative things, you earned more then you lost, you lost an Illusion that gave you a life lesson, that illusion taught you to love yourself, respect yourself, appreciate yourself, empathize with yourself, that illusion taught you that your happiness depends on you and lies within you, you don’t need to go around searching for happiness because the only happiness that you will ever find lies within you, you will find your happiness when you learn to accept yourself the way you are, when you constantly feel grateful with what you possess and you constantly feel happy with your own self feeling good on your own skin, having the ability to be positive and enjoy the little things that life has to offer you, that’s an everlasting happiness, the ability to just be free and feel good no matter what happens , you don’t need to depend into people to find happiness, you don’t need to allow people to dictate your happiness or how you feel about yourself, you don’t need to get affected by peoples thoughts and ideas, that illusion taught you how to respect your own boundaries, how to never allow people to surpass your boundaries knowing your limits, that illusion pushed you out of your comfort zone, making you face your fears, making you fight for your own life, getting you to a whole new mental level of awesomness, you would have never known how strong you are until life presented you an option where you had no choice that you had to push your boundaries, capture your own mind, fight your urges/cravings and most importantly fight for your own life, if the experience never happened you would have never known the fact how strong you were mentally or what you were capable of doing, you would have allowed your mental barriers to dictate your whole life, hiding behind that comfort zone, always being scared of pushing yourself, being scared of failure, and most importantly never having the ability to fight for your own life, never knowing what is it like to bring yourself up when life gets you down to your knees and never knowing how much you were capable of doing both physically and mentally, always quitting before trying the things, always giving up before starting. You lost nothing, while they lost everything, congratulations you learned the essence of life, your learned about happiness and love in general, since now you possess the ability and knowledge to make yourself happy, just go out there enjoy your life and be grateful that you are kicking, stop searching for love and happiness, be yourself let life flow, when you learn tho’s things only then life will present you with a gift that is going to add happiness to your happiness with whom you are going to share an eternal happiness, this life experience reminded you once again of who you are, what you are capable of doing and what you should be doing in future.

Hopefully this helped you understand how they roll and you now are able to differ a kid from a grown up, if it did, leave an upvote, i put lots of effort, emotions and heart to try to describe what will go on and how it happens with the most practical examples.

Peace, Love and Happiness.


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The life of a Narc begins at the shitty childhood.

Where I am now, I say

"Daddy was right! You really are stupid".


You have no one to blame but yourself! :troll2: :panic:
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Why Do People Say "Jesus H. Christ," and Where Did the "H" Come From?


https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/571516/why-do-people-say-jesus-h-christ-and-where-did-h-come
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smee: I would love to have you join us
so I can tell you to SHUT UP!


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If I say something, will the fallen tree in the forest come back with constructive criticism?
Stay tuned, and send Beer.


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Seriously, I think this story is losing traction> And I see the Money changing hands.
Fucken sick.
I want some too.



But it better be LEGIT!!!!
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WOE! There's some inspirational Lyrics for you punk-ass garage bands RIGHT THERE!
Take it, make it and promise me 10% of The Take, cheat me and I retaliate.

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