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« Last post by tellomon on Today at 03:37:45 AM »
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The Round Table / Re: Tales From The Narc Side
« Last post by tellomon on Today at 02:55:02 AM »@carparthero
13 days ago
Narcissists view the world in a very competitive way. They need you to feel small - so they can feel big. They need you to feel broken - so they can appear whole. they need you to doubt yourself - so they can be the source of all knowledge. They’re trying to fix themselves by breaking you.
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« Last post by tellomon on Today at 02:40:12 AM »@danabaillie3948
1 day ago
Basically, the narcissist has no friends also because everyone is sick and tired of his/her CRAP!!!!
@ronaldculley
0 seconds ago
HA! My ex Narc got out of town when all her friends shunned her. Good move!
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« Last post by tellomon on April 18, 2024, 08:53:57 AM »HOW TO BE A DANGEROUS HUMAN BEING
1. TALK LESS
Silence is powerful. You don't have to be a circus monkey and keep constantly talking.
A silent man is a very dangerous man, when you talk less, you keep people around you on their toes by making them guess what is going on in your mind.
2. MEAN IT!
Do what you say you're going to do. Accomplish your goals and people will pay attention. If people see and realize you're a man of your word and you do what you say you will, people won't dare to disrespect you.
They should know, when you say something, it has power. You can accomplish what you say you will.
3. DON'T GIVE A F*CK
When you stop caring, they start caring when you stop reacting to BS. When you stop reacting, it worries them as now they have no control over you and your emotions.
4. STAY MYSTERIOUS
We fear what we don't understand/know, Don't let them know everything about you. Keep them guessing. Suspense can be used to your advantage.
5. ACCOMPLISH SMALL GOALS
Try making your bed in the morning. If you do this regularly, you will have accomplished the first task of the day. It will give you a small sense of pride and not be afraid to try again or make the next tough decision.
6. CONTROL YOUR ACTIONS
You don't have to answer and react to everything. There are certain things you can't control. So reacting to everything around you is a sign of impulsiveness.
7. MAKE GRADUAL IMPROVEMENTS
You can't go to level 10 with level 1 habits.
- Start by reading one page.
- Start by writing one paragraph.
- Start by doing one workout Then focus on getting 1% better every day. Minor improvements over time lead to big changes.
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« Last post by tellomon on April 18, 2024, 08:34:19 AM »What does a depressed narcissist look like?
A depressed narcissist is an interesting and complex character. While narcissists typically exhibit grandiose behaviors and an inflated sense of self-importance, depression can manifest in their lives as well. However, it's important to note that not all narcissists experience depression, and not all depressed individuals are narcissistic. Let's dive a bit deeper into what a depressed narcissist may look like.
Firstly, it's crucial to understand the basic characteristics of a narcissist. Narcissists often crave attention and admiration, have a sense of entitlement, lack empathy, and believe they are superior to others. They may constantly seek validation and engage in manipulative behavior to maintain their self-image. They tend to have fragile self-esteem that is easily shattered by criticism or failure.
When depression enters the picture, it can add another layer to their already complex personality. A depressed narcissist may experience feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness despite their grandiose facade. They may struggle with maintaining their highly polished image and may feel exhausted from constantly seeking validation.
One common trait you might notice in a depressed narcissist is a behavior change. While they typically exude confidence and charm, depression can lead to withdrawal and isolation. They may start to avoid social interactions, lose interest in activities they once enjoyed, and display a lack of motivation or energy.
Another sign could be a shift in their self-perception. A depressed narcissist might experience self-doubt and self-criticism, which can be quite challenging for their ego-driven personality. They may become hypersensitive to criticism or rejection, reacting more intensely than usual.
In some cases, depression can even lead to a "masking effect" where the narcissistic traits become less prominent temporarily. They may display vulnerability and express their feelings of sadness or despair, seeking comfort and support from others. However, this vulnerability could also be an attempt to gain sympathy or manipulate others into providing the attention they crave.
It's important to remember that diagnosing someone as a depressed narcissist should be left to mental health professionals. The combination of these two conditions can be complex and challenging to decipher without proper assessment.
In conclusion, a depressed narcissist may exhibit changes in behavior such as withdrawal and isolation, a shift in self-perception including self-doubt and sensitivity to criticism, and potentially even display temporary vulnerability. It's crucial to approach such individuals with empathy and understanding, as they are navigating the complexities of both depression and narcissism.
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« Last post by tellomon on April 17, 2024, 03:33:16 PM »FUTURE FAKING
Future faking is when they promise something about your future without taking the steps to make it a reality.
Most narcissists will do this.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Most narcissists will do this.
What is "future faking"? (Glossary of Narcissistic Relationships)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBMaZLBKNko
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBMaZLBKNko
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« Last post by tellomon on April 17, 2024, 02:25:42 PM »Jesus said, Let the dead bury the dead.
The Narcissist is Dead Inside
The Narcissist is Dead Inside
@CrusaderforChrist-Channel
1 year ago (edited)
One thing that I noticed about narcissist, is that they know that something is wrong with them, they just don’t know how to come out of it. They lack self awareness. They just don’t know how to fix it, because their pride and selfishness won’t allow it.
Have you ever noticed how narcissist constantly interrupts? It’s that darkness in them rising up not wanting your words to penetrate through to their host. Demons are like parasites that use humans as “Host”. That’s also why narcissist mimic humans behaviors, cuz those demons in them don’t have those feelings naturally.
Except for hatred for mankind. That’s also why the narcissist enjoys seeing that they hurt you. It’s that demon(s) in them enjoying watching you suffer…
@philu4621
1 year ago
They never stop putting your character and your perception of yourself through a chipper shredder... you will always walk away feeling like nothing because they find a way to diminish you constantly
@carolynforge8586
3 months ago
I call them the walking dead.
@pendennis123
1 year ago
I never saw dead eyes like that before I met him. It was like looking into the soul of a reptile, truly.
