How do I spot a
narcissistic person?
To spot a narcissistic person, you must use the force - your life force.
In the presence of a narcissist, you will slowly feel worse and worse. This is because the narcissist is an emotional black hole, and being in close proximity causes you to be sucked in, and crushed.
Don't worry about looking for certain words, dilated pupils, or DSM-5 traits, the surest sign that you are interacting with a narcissist is that you slowly feel misery seeping deep into your core.
Your feelings you must trust.
__________________________________RelatedHow do you know for sure you are with a narcissist?1.) Moody
2.) Controlling
3.) Manipulating
4.) Silent Treatment
5.) Gas lighting
6.) Distancing
7.) Always complaining about small little things
8.) Lazy
9.) Always on their phone
10.) Being disrespectful
11.) Liar
12.) Cheater
13.) Too sensitive
14.) Always need validation from their SO
15.) Too friendly to your friends but not you
16.) Out of nowhere suddenly being sweet then grumpy again
17.) Easily get jealous specially with opposite sex
18.) Possessive
19.) Don't want to talk about their past relationship
20.) Lack of interest about you
21.) Passive aggressive
22.) Arrogant
23. ) The mask falls off after you confront him/her
24.) (S)he thinks (s)he is the greatest thing ever created by God
25.) It feels like you are talking to yourself when the narc is presence
26.) Smearing your name to common friends and at the same time wants to be with you
27.) No appreciation of anything you do for him/her
28.) Always look depress
29.) Future faking
30.) Love bombing stop around 2–3 months and you will feel like you are just roommates after the love bombing stage
31.) Boring partner
32.) Using push and pull tactic on the SO
33.) Always want to receive but never give
34.) Impulsive and reckless behavior
35.) Entitled
36.) Always saying bad things to other people (imagine what the narc is saying about you when you are not around?)
37.) History of cheating
38.) Pretentious
39.) Always want to look good to other people but it is just a façade
40.) Ignorant when (s)he makes a mistake
41.) No real long term friends, just acquaintances
42.) No empathy
43.) Selfish
44.) Charming
45.) Narc can’t be alone. The famous harmless discard “can we just be friends for now?” I need to find myself and have peace. Have peace with the new supply b!tch! (You will be the back up plan just incase the new supply doesn’t work out.)
46.) No real hobbies
47.) Always want attention
48.) Absent minded
49.) Lack of sleep (bad karma takes over their brain cells due to bad things they have done to people). No matter how they try to ignore it and escape from it, It will always hunt and follow them around. That is why they have sleepless nights
50.) Always think and act like (s)he is superior over you, even though people know (s)he not
51.) Always look miserable (If (s)he see you happy or smiling, the narc will give you a funny look because (s)he doesn't know how it feels to be really happy or (s)he will get mad and give you dirty look because the narc is paranoid that you might be making fun of him/her.)
52.) The narc words doesn’t match his/her actions
53.) Always the victim
54.) Best actors and actresses who should win a movie award
55.) It feels like you are walking into an egg shells during the relationshit
56.) If you are more successful in life, the narc will try to sabotage the relationshit just because you are doing better than him/her
57.) Drama Queen/King
58.) Self-Centered who thinks everything revolved around him/her
59.) Being humble and shy in the beginning of the relationshit, but rotten tomato inside
60.) Blaming you that the relationshit didn’t work out because you have issues. But In reality, it did not work out because (s)he is a PATHOLOGICAL liar, fake, serial CHEATER, and all of the above I mentioned!
61.) No closure after the break up
62.) Stalking you after the break up
63.) Hoovering you after the break up
Note: When the hoover doesn’t work and (s)he is in a bad situation with the new supply, the narc will go to a deep depression. The narc will quickly remember the best supply or the grade A supply. The narc will be like, wow! I left my old supply with this new loser supply? What am I thinking?
However, it will be too late to go back because some victims don’t forget what the narc did and there is no second chance. Betrayal, pain and disrespect! The victims never forget this! The narc is delusional that every victim is the same, but (s)he is wrong!
Karma is a b!tch! Their karma is you! Because they cant have you anymore. Don’t entertained these fools. There is no happiness with these pathetic losers and just pain, drama and chaos!