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The Round Table / Re: Tales From The Narc Side
« Last post by tellomon on April 27, 2024, 09:49:00 PM »How do narcissists
destroy you?
destroy you?
For starters, the narcissist couldn’t give a ff about you once they’ve left you in a heap of misery. What they do care about is what they can take and exploit from you with zero reciprocity. They’ll destroy your health, finances, friendships, employment, family or anything else you hold dear. But here’s how they destroy you bit by bit over time;
Manipulation, exploitation, gaslighting
Pathological lying / deceit
Leading doubles lives
Infidelity; promiscuity, serial cheating, having hidden dating profiles and hookup apps across multiple platforms
Physical health; subjecting you to the possibility of contracting a raft of STDs as they feign exclusivity while banging tf out of multiple sex partners simultaneously throughout your relationship
Blame shifting, sidestepping accountability for their countless misdeeds and betrayals
Addictions; drugs, alcohol, pornography, compulsive masturbation, sex and / or gambling
Financial abuse
Triangulation; introducing third parties into the relationship to create jealousy
Verbal abuse, put downs, shaming and blaming
Intimacy avoidance / withdrawal
Shirking domestic responsibilities; failing to maintain the home, clean, cook, shop for groceries or pay bills - they’ll expect all this from you
Intermittent dosing; when you’re into devaluation, you’ll be sprinkled with reminders of how they were during the love bombing phase to keep you in the game and supply them with zero fs given and no reciprocity
Future faking; promising you a bright future with no intent on following through
Grooming and lining up your replacement at a time of their choosing - this doesn’t include the string of infidelities prior to the new replacement being found
Smear campaigning; playing the victim, trashing your good name to anyone who will listen to elicit sympathy to set the storyline in place for their discard
Duper’s delight; the feeling of power and control they get to sadistically gratify themselves when they deceive you relentlessly. This gives them a sense of power and control over you and the relationship dynamic
By the end of it all, you’ll even question your own sense of reality due to the mind f’ckery at every turn. Narcissists destroy people and do so with hatred and contempt for you.
They then walk away without even a backwards glance blowing up each relationship they enter.
