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The Round Table / Re: Tales From The Narc Side
« Last post by tellomon on Today at 05:55:23 AM »What happens when you show
no emotions towards a narcissist?
no emotions towards a narcissist?
They get confused.
They keep trying to make you upset.
They do something sneaky without you knowing, like lying, cheating, or stealing.
They might try to start a fight over something small or blame you for things to get a reaction.
They talk to other people who support them and say bad things about you.
Then, they start treating you badly, making you feel unimportant and confused.
They spend more time on social media, looking for attention.
When they find someone new who doesn't know them well but likes them, they keep trying to impress them.
Meanwhile, they treat you worse, showing less care and being mean.
You might decide to leave, or they might decide to end things with you.
The story is over until the narcissist gets bored. Then, they might try to come back (hoovering).
You can choose to stop talking to them completely, or the narcissist might start the same cycle again. This can happen over and over until you decide to cut off contact for real.
You might feel sad about the time you wasted and that someone tricked you. It's good to talk to someone for advice on why this happened and how to avoid it in the future.
Finally, because you are smart, you move on. Later, you might look back and laugh, realizing you can't believe you fell for someone like them.
Don't forget this, no matter how long it takes to feel better, find support, and you will get through it!