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Will a narcissist ever see that he is breaking your heart?


Absolutely, yes!

A narcissist is fully aware of the damage they’re causing but here’s the kicker; zero fs are given.

Not only do narcissists lack empathy, they also lack whole object relations. This skewed perception of you in the narcissist’s eyes as increasingly “all bad”, post love bomb, justifies their autrcious behaviour of you with galling entitlement.

Why do they abuse after all the energy, love, devotion and most likely financial investments you’ve made in the relationship? Two words; narcissistic supply.

Similar to a heroin addict or a raging alcoholic, their drugs of choice are substances. Like substance abusers, a narcissist’s tolerance for supply from a particular source increases as time passes. For a period of time, your supply was able to satiate the narcissist. For example, you showed commitment, loyalty, fidelity and invested in the narcissist’s façade while buying into their future faking “aspirations” to keep you hooked and supplying. As time passed and you attempted to settle into your routines, post love bombing as would anyone in a healthy relationship, not so with a narcissist. Their angst increases as they no longer get that same rush from your supply as they once did. As a result, devaluation sets in like a ominous black cloud suddenly darkening the skies of your relationship.

Regardless of your increasing and sometimes desperate attempts to rekindle the spark you once had with the narcissist, nothing seems to work. If anything, the depravity of the narcissist’s behaviour reaches depths which you thought were inconceivable. You’ll be gaslit, manipulated, humiliated, triangulated, smeared, given damaging silent treatments while the narcissist is serial cheating, hoping to find a fresh purveyor of the hit of supply they once got from you in the beginning. Your potency is waning and the narcissist knows this as they hurriedly try to find that next big hit of supply - a new lover hence the secret dating profiles and hookup apps.

The narcissist blames you, though no fault of your own for their lack of satisfaction despite the fact you gave them the sun and the moon. Since NPD is a “hit” based disorder, they’re impusively seeking the next big payload of supply - similar to an addict mainlining for a high.

A narcissist knows their behaviours are unconscionable which is why they go to great lengths to keep them hidden from you. They also derive gratification as they see you scramble in futility to recapture their heart, which was never there in the first place. They’ll cruelly breadcrumb you just to keep you in the game long enough as they audition alternate suitors. This is just more supply that they’ll gladly accept as your state of exasperation worsens. It enforces their belief that they’re highly desirable and omnipotent when you and others are vying for their attention.

A narcissist knows they are destroying you little by little, but again, they couldn’t give a ff since they're already lining up other supply options, chasing the next big hit. Once they’ve secured a new source of supply - your replacement, you’re discarded with hatred, vitriol and contempt.

Narcissist know they’re breaking your heart, but they could care less since it’s not about you but solely about them at your expense.


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Tales from the Narc side - Presented by Ron Tello

Scheduled for Jan 18, 2024
Please join me and panel guest Ron Tello as we discuss his Tales from the Narc side. Many of you know him as Ron Tello the "Mayor" of Montello, the creative, eccentric, funny and long haired dude that used to live in Montello, NV. After exercising his 2nd Amendment right to protect himself, he was held in Elko Co. jail for 357 days. Once released he was unable to return back to his home and he now considers himself a Political Refugee and resides in California. We will also celebrate his 66th birthday with him. If you would like to send him a few dollars to say Happy Birthday, his paypal info is below.
Paypal email for Ron: m86thecat@yahoo.com


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The Round Table / Re: DYLAN ROUNDS: A Tello Files Special Edition
« Last post by tellomon on January 18, 2024, 01:02:38 PM »
Oh yeah says who?
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The Round Table / Re: DYLAN ROUNDS: A Tello Files Special Edition
« Last post by *smee* on January 18, 2024, 12:05:14 PM »
You aren’t allowed within 200ft of a Boy Scout
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HORRIFIC! Something Really Crazy Is Happening On eBay !!!

http://www.ozroundtable.com/index.php?topic=8251.0



@nunyabidness6045
2 days ago
EBay is TRASH anyways. I honestly can't believe they still exist. This is a CEO? Yeah, I'll NEVER use Ebay NOW! This really backfired on them.
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:tello: "When did this happen? Oh well, got it now!"

2312288 Views
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I'm gonna get a dog, name it "And".

Then I'll get a cat, name it "What".

Chow Time Fun this one...


Greetings from a self-made annoying pet owner neighbor...

In the alternative...dog named "Faw" and a cat named "Cue".
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The Round Table / Re: DYLAN ROUNDS: A Tello Files Special Edition
« Last post by tellomon on January 16, 2024, 02:00:15 PM »
Hi smee. Can't say. I am missing too, and now. Don't send help. Call The Boy Scouts. They know how to get things done.
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The Round Table / Re: DYLAN ROUNDS: A Tello Files Special Edition
« Last post by *smee* on January 16, 2024, 08:21:39 AM »
What’s the latest ? Have they found him ?
Has there been a conviction ?
Or are they still pussey footing around with this ?
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The Round Table / Re: The Tello Blog of Blogs~~~> FREE to The Public | Pay as you go
« Last post by tellomon on January 15, 2024, 08:48:52 PM »
:tello: "Sorry the vids are gone. Evil forced them to go underground for awhile.
You can thank Jim Terry for that..."

:taunt:     :deadhorse:    :jandoor:
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