What do narcissists feel inside?
They feel :
Powerful in a relationship, they need to be seen as the dominant force. If you challenge them in any way, you’ve irreversibly harmed their pride and are likely on the road to being discarded.
More Important than you . They can’t be with someone who makes them feel inferior or take the spotlight away.
Noticed from their perspective, it always feels like the world isn’t recognizing their amazing talent . They think they're God’s gift to mankind.
Need to be worshiped . They need that partner to express their love to the fullest whenever they’re around, and especially when anyone else is around. Narcissists want others to see that their partner worships the ground they walk on.
They feel like you’re in control, at every moment. It’s that ego fragility that makes narcissists so dangerous to be around; they can snap at any moment when they feel threatened.
A narcissist wants you to fill in all the little cracks in their ego.
They want you to recognize all of their good qualities and ignore the unsavory ones.
They want you to make them look better whenever you’re together.
They want you to get out of the way when they are BORED with you and they go looking for a NEW SOURCE OF SUPPLY !